What's on: Dying Matters Awareness Week

Thursday 4th May

12pm: Good is Great, The Good Grief Trust (online)

Are you a professional working with the bereaved? Join us from 12pm - 1pm & celebrate all that is GOOD in bereavement care. If you are bereaved, we would love to hear from you if you’ve experienced exceptional care when you needed it most! Let's come together, share and learn from each other's work to help improve standards of care for the bereaved across the UK. Online registration link / contact for more info / download the poster.

8th - 14th May

Finding bereavement support anyone, anytime, anywhere, AtaLoss (online)

We will be supporting Dying Matters Week by providing our gold standard national bereavement signposting website to enable people to find support at any time. We will also be encouraging people to 'talk' about their loved one by creating a memory page and sharing it with friends and family wherever they are in the country or the world. Further information.

Monday 8th May

9am: Launch of the 2023 Updated West Midlands Palliative Care Physicians Guidelines

The launch of the newly updated West Midlands Palliative Care Physicians Guidance will take place as part of Dying Matters Awareness Week. Launching the well-known and well-respected guidelines at this calendar point will draw the attention of generalist clinician colleagues to the DMAW campaign. More information / contact for questions

Tuesday 9th May

10am: Bereavement in the Workplace Workshop - The Brigitte Trust (online)

Come and join us as we introduce some facts and figures on how society sees mourning; explore some of the theories around grief and bereavement; look at how bereavement can present; and offer some tips on active listening and how best to respond and be alongside those who need support.

This session will be delivered online via Zoom. Your workshop link will be emailed to you upon registration. If you have any questions about this event, please email The Brigitte Trust.

11am: Dr Rachel Clarke in conversation with Professor Mark Taubert on YouTube, Compassionate Cymru (online)

In this YouTube webinar, Dr Rachel Clarke and Professor Mark Taubert discuss how to help people at the end of life have better experiences and outcomes. They discuss their experiences with people’s challenges of living in the face of death, and the transformative power of human stories. This webinar has been organised by Compassionate Cymru, part of the Palliative & End of Life Care Programme Board NHS Wales Executive. Follow Compassionate Cymru on Twitter for the Youtube link.

Mae Dr Rachel Clarke a’r Athro Mark Taubert yn trafod sut i helpu pobl sydd yn wynebu ddiwedd oes, er mwyn byw bywyd llawn a chyfoethog â phosibl. Byddant yn trafod yr heriau o fyw yn wyneb marwolaeth a phŵer storïau dynol trawsnewidiol. Trefnir y weminar hon gan Cymru Caredig, rhan o'r Rhaglen Gofal Lliniarol a Diwedd Oes.

12pm: Advance Care Planning Matters webinar, Speak for Me (online)

Advance Care Planning Matters and it matters to everyone. The session will present an overview of the components of Advance Care Planning and explore how it can be part of normal life planning. Triggers for starting Advance Care Planning will be shared and there will be time for questions and answers. How can I find out more if I can’t attend the presentation? You can find out more about Advance Care Planning at www.speakforme.co.uk

You can access blogs, podcasts and information about Advance Care Planning as well as information Lasting Power of Attorney. Who is it for? This event is open to everyone, who is interested in Advance Care Planning personally or professionally. How can I book? Right here on Eventbrite. 

1pm: If Dying Matters, then it matters at work too, Pendleside Hospice (online)

We've teamed up with Amrita GB from NORI HR and Employment Law to talk about ways in which you, as leaders, managers and directors, can support your staff, from both an emotional and practical perspective. By attending our free webinar, you can gain confidence in knowing the right things to say and what you can do to support your team in the workplace, should anyone be dealing with a bereavement. Alongside Amrita, we will also be joined by Pendleside Hospice's Chief Executive, Helen McVey, Family Support Counsellor, Andrea Orme-Wright and Communications & Marketing Manager, Kayleigh James, who will be hosting the event.

It's also a great opportunity to find out more about our Family Support & Bereavement counselling service for adults, children and families living within the Burnley & Pendle community, and how you can make use of the amazing support on offer! Please note, this is an online only event. Webinar joining link. Contact for more info.

1.30pm: The National Audit for Care at the End of Life (NACEL) - who we are and what are aiming to do (online)

NACEL is a national piece of work assessing whether care at the end of life in hospitals meets standards of good practice. We have been running for 5 years and have been re-funded for another 3-5 by NHS England (via HQIP). In this webinar we will be giving an overview of what we do and what we are hoping to achieve in the next 3-5 years. Get the Teams joining link / contact for more info

2.30pm: Love, Loss and Life (online), Overgate Hospice

Join us on Zoom for ‘Love, Loss and Life'. Paul Williams shares his own poetry, written as he travelled his personal journey of grief. Meeting hosted by Overgate Chaplain Andy Thewlis. Meeting ID: 897 7317 7701 Passcode: 960364. Contact for more info. Download the poster.

3.15pm: Supporting you through your bereavement journey, Stow Healthcare (online)

Join Katherine Grogan from a St Elizabeth Hospice LivingGrief Bereavement Hub in a session specifically aimed at staff (but open to all interested) that encounter grief multiple times when supporting those who die in their care. If you find it difficult to manage your grief, or if you would like to learn how you can support those around you more effectively, Katherine will help you understand: Can/ should carer givers grieve? What to expect when you are grieving; How to support others in their grief; What the LivingGrief Co-ordination Hub can offer. Get the Zoom joining link.

Wednesday 10th May

10am: On Death, Dying and Grief – Let's talk about death!, Walsall Healthcare Trust (online) In conversation with Bereavement Support Team @ WPCC and Chaplaincy – "On Death, Dying and Grief – Let's talk about death!", we will look at a variety of ideas, opening the conversation and explore the needs of the attending audience in effort to tailor our approach to meet those. We explore taboos, theoretical assumptions, signposting and answering any questions as raised. Contact for joining link.

10.30am: Grief in the workplace webinar, Sue Ryder (online)

When it comes to something as tough as grief, it can be hard to know what to say or do, and that’s no different in the workplace. As part of Dying Matters Week, Sue Ryder would like to invite you to join us to hear from a panel of experts who will be coming together to discuss Grief in the workplace. Our panel of speakers will share what changes they have made in their organisation to better support people going through grief, what prompted those changes, any future plans to make further improvements and any positive impact on business they may have seen. You will have the chance to hear how our specialist bereavement services can support your colleagues and where to signpost anyone you know who may need bereavement support. If you feel this event would suit a colleague or other department better, please feel free to share this link with them. Further info & booking.

11am: Demystifying processes after death, Stow Healthcare (online)

Mark Skinner Funeral Service are known for the support they have provided to families for over 40 years in this traditional, family run business. Join Mark as he helps to demystify some of the processes that happen after death, as he shares his experiences of supporting both the deceased and their families at a difficult time. Get the Zoom joining link.

12pm: Navigating a life-changing diagnosis: Simple strategies for patients, families and health care providers in 30 minutes! (online)

Dr. Hsien Seow and Clare Fuller host popular podcasts about how to improve the entire illness experience through planning ahead. They have interviewed hundreds of people and have uncovered simple strategies and tools to share with patients, families and health care providers that can be used early on in an illness. This 30 minute event will discuss 7 keys to a better illness experience, tools for advance care planning, and will ultimately help normalize planning ahead in every day conversations. There will also be time to answer audience questions. Register to attend for free.

12pm: Words of wisdom: What dying can teach us about living well (online)

How can working with people who are dying teach us about living? What wisdom can be found within the environment of palliative and end of life care, and how can it be acknowledged, articulated and shared? Do we only think about wisdom in relation to the old or is it a gift which is continually realised across all ages, and is the positive gain of hardship experienced?

Join us for a thought provoking lunchtime gathering to explore insights and wisdom found by Royal Trinity Hospice staff through their work in close proximity with patients and their families at a highly personal and individualised time in their lives. This event is open to all and part of Trinity's 2023 Dying Matters Week activities. This online event is free but booking essential.

12.30pm: Why Dying Matters at Work, Live Session (online)

Join our live session on our Facebook and Instagram as we discuss the topic of death and dying in the workplace. Our CEO and Founder, Liz Pryor will be joined by Anita Wynne, the CEO of BestStart HR. Contact for more info. Search Anne Robson Trust on Instagram and Facebook. Download the poster.

12.30pm: ‘Virtual Bereavement Cafe' (online), Overgate Hospice

Join us on Zoom for our ‘Virtual Bereavement Cafe'. Join us for an opportunity to come together to share experiences and receive support following the death of a loved one. Hosted by Overgate Chaplain Andy Thewlis and Psychotherapy & Counselling Lead Jet Hardinge. Meeting ID: 890 2100 6901 Passcode: 346772. Contact for more info. Download the poster.

1pm: Dying Matters at Work, Southeast London Palliative and End of Life Care network (webinar)

Southeast London Palliative and End of Life Care network group have collaborated with different health and care organisations within the system to present a one hour free information packed webinar on exploring support and resources available to managers on holding those sensitive conversations around dying, death and bereavement at work. This online webinar is aimed at clinical and non-clinical managers so please join us as we explore and discuss the theme 'Dying Matters at Work'. Registration essential. Download the poster.

2pm: Introduction to supporting bereaved people at work, St Wilfrid's Hospice, Sussex (online)

Dying Matters Awareness Week is very close to our hearts here at St Wilfrid’s Hospice. This year we are running Introduction to supporting bereaved people at work for our local businesses and community. The content will include an overview of grief and bereavement; strategies to support a bereaved person; and tips to support a bereaved/distressed person.

The event will be held on Zoom. Event details: https://stwh.co.uk/courses/introduction-to-supporting-bereaved-people-at-work/

2pm: On Death, Dying and Grief – Let's talk with children and young people about death!, Walsall Healthcare Trust (online)

In conversation with Bereavement Support Team @ WPCC, we will look at a variety of ideas, opening the conversation and explore the needs of the attending audience in effort to tailor our approach to meet those, specifically from the perspective of holding conversations with Children and young People. We explore taboos, theoretical assumptions, signposting and answering any questions as raised. Contact for joining link.

2pm: An Introduction to the Five Priorities of Care for Dying People, Rowcroft Hospice (online)

A free online (zoom) education workshop by Rowcroft education team for health and social professionals to know about, and recall, the priorities for when they are caring for people and their loved ones at end of life. Registration link. 

2.30pm: Understanding end of life, Stow Healthcare (online)

Caring for someone at the end of their life can be a time of very mixed emotions, whether you are doing so as part of your job, or as a family member supporting someone very close to you. In this very special session, hear from one of Stow Healthcare’s End of Life Champions Denise and relative Michele who supported her mother who was receiving end of life care in 2022. Topics we will cover include: How it feels to be told a loved one is approaching death and how you can prepare; Useful things you can do to support a loved one who is dying; What physical symptoms we might expect to see; Demystifying terminology and technology; How to support with end of life care planning; Talking about care after death; Support available in the grieving process. Get the Zoom joining link.

7pm: Leukaemia Bereavement Online Support Group, Leukaemia Care

This is a bereavement support group for anyone affected by a loss due to a leukaemia. Coping with the pain and heartache of a close bereavement is always difficult; you feel overwhelmed with grief. This group aims to offer a caring, supportive environment, providing a helpful way to explore feelings and share experiences with the solidarity of others. To join the meeting via Zoom: Meeting ID: 87200971744, passcode: 994233. Further information.

Thursday 11th May

11am: 'My Terminal Illness' (online), Overgate Hospice

Join us on Zoom for ‘My Terminal Illness'. Poems by Steve Anderson, read by his widow Joanna. Meeting hosted by Overgate Chaplain Andy Thewlis. Meeting ID: 858 9719 3317 Passcode: 916263 Contact for more info. Download the poster.

Friday 12th May

12pm: Working with terminal illness: bringing together research with practice (online)

We are bringing together research and practice to explore what dying matters means in the context of work. Led by What Works Wellbeing's Head of Implementation and Learning, Joanne Smithson, this free webinar will include a variety of stories and conversations, as well as a chance to explore our recent work with Marie Curie to understand the experience of terminal illness in working age people and identify current policies and practices to support employees. What the session will look like:

12:00 - Welcome & Introductions
12.10 - Clair Fisher's story (Clare Fuller)
12.20 - Working with Terminal Illness, what is known; and what’s needed (Joanne Smithson)
12.30 - Conversations at work - What we can learn from the stories (Ruth Parry)
12.40 - Barry’s story (Jo Armstrong)
12.50 - Audience Q&A

We look forward to welcoming you online. More info and booking.

1.45pm: Soul Midwives, Stow Healthcare (online)

Find out all about the fascinating role of a Soul Midwife, a movement that lovingly easing the passage of the dying, to ensure that death is a dignified and peaceful experience. Topics covered will include: The types of support offered by soul midwives; When the work of a soul midwife can begin; How a soul midwife can support someone in a care home environment; Support provided for families by soul midwives. Join us to find out why soul midwives can play such an important role in a peaceful experience for all those involved with the dying person. Get the Zoom joining link.

7pm: TLC - The 4 Stages of Dying Workshop (online, £30)

TLC workshops give ANYONE and EVERYONE practical skills, invaluable information, confidence and support when it comes to looking after someone who is dying? You may work in health care, be caring for a loved one or feel drawn to this kind of work, whatever your motivation and experience, you are very welcome.

This session teaches The 4 Stages of Dying. In this 90 minute module we will look at the process of dying and what happens at each stage from a different point of view. This is such an interesting and deep aspect of our work and one that can really help everybody we work with whether you are the patient, family, carer or other health care professional. We will look in-depth at what a person experiences and how best we can support them at each step. In todays society, we often see death as a clinical process but there is so much more to it, and us, than we realise. These aspects need and deserve heartfelt care and attention. Also, having this understanding of death can better support someone on their dying journey, it can ease their fears, as well as our own, at such a difficult time. There will be an opportunity to share if you wish, ask questions to myself and each other and engage in a confidential, safe and loving space. All you will need is access to Zoom, a quiet space with no distractions and an open heart. All handouts will be emailed after the training along with a certificate of attendance. Booking essential. Contact for more info / download the poster.

Saturday 13th May

6pm: Free Q&A Session on Grief in the Workplace, Grief Support Services (online)

Join us on Zoom for a Free Q&A Session on Grief in the Workplace, hosted and facilitated by a Healthcare Chaplain and Psychotherapist whose work is in supporting staff, family members and patients in anticipatory grief or bereavement. This session is for work colleagues or managers who want to support someone grieving more effectively. Receive a complimentary e-guide on how you, as a work colleague and / or manager can offer support to someone grieving. Get the Zoom joining link. 

Wednesday 17th May

12pm: Free webinar: Know your rights - funeral price transparency, Quaker Social Action (online)

In September 2021 the Competition and Markets Authority’s Funerals Market Investigation Order placed legal requirements on funeral directors and crematoria operators. Join us to learn what this means people arranging a funeral can legally expect from funeral directors: Price transparency; Set packages they must offer; Payment terms and legal disclosures; Forbidden forms of promotion; And what you can do if they aren’t compliant

Despite being legal requirements, not all companies are doing what they should. We are launching a campaign to improve price transparency. Everyone can easily take part. Join us to hear about it! Further information. 

Thursday 18th May

1pm: Lasting Power of Attorney and Wills - Gentle Dusk in partnership with Age UK Islington (online)

It is very important to plan ahead! Make sure you have a spokesperson and your wishes are known with Lasting Powers of Attorney (LPA).  From paying bills to making important decisions, everyone should have one. Attend the FREE zoom presentation and learn everything you need to know about LPAs and vital information for setting up your own Will. Find out more and register to attend

Wednesday 10th May

10am: Dying Matters at work too, STSFT

At STSFT, We want to encourage compassionate conversations in the workplace in support of our colleagues and develop confidence in one another to talk about those we have lost and for also our loved ones we are currently caring for.

Our aim is to express those special memories and what matters most to us, using creativity and imagination. We will be hosting a Memory Tree, pebble painting & Bucket List as part of our event. We are encouraging as many staff as possible to Come along and get involved in our dying matters events on 10th & 11th May (Staff Restaurant SRH and Education Suite SRH). Address: STSFT, Sunderland Royal Hospital, Tyne and Wear, SR4 4TP. Contact for more info

11am: RVI Medi Cinema Dying Matters Awareness Event, Newcastle upon Tyne

Dying Matters Week (8 – 14 May) is about promoting an open culture to highlight the importance of talking about death, dying and grief. This year’s focus is on how we handle these issues at work. Stigma around grieving, and a lack of understanding about what it means to be ill and what happens when you’re dying, mean that too many of us are struggling to cope when faced with life’s inevitable challenges. And the workplace is no exception. If we live in a society where we are scared to talk about death, we don’t understand dying or refuse to talk about grief, then how can we react with compassion when our colleagues, peers, and friends need support?

Please pop in and join us: RVI Medi Cinema on Wednesday 10 May 11:00 and 15:00hrs You will find staff that are happy to see you, information on dealing with death and grief, guidance on advance care planning and more. All welcome, even if you just stop by for a chat, a cake or a chocolate. Address: RVI Hospital (Medicinema - Victoria Wing), Newcastle upon Tyne, NE1 4LP. Further information.

Friday 12th May 

10am: Dying Matters Awareness Event, Grainger Market, Newcastle

Dying Matters Week (8 – 14 May) is about promoting an open culture to highlight the importance of talking about death, dying and grief. This year’s focus is on how we handle these issues at work. Stigma around grieving, and a lack of understanding about what it means to be ill and what happens when you’re dying, mean that too many of us are struggling to cope when faced with life’s inevitable challenges. And the workplace is no exception. If we live in a society where we are scared to talk about death, we don’t understand dying or refuse to talk about grief, then how can we react with compassion when our colleagues, peers, and friends need support?

Please pop in and join us: Grainger Market, Newcastle on Friday 12 May 10:00 and 14:00hrs. You will find staff that are happy to see you, information on dealing with death and grief, guidance on advance care planning and more. All welcome, even if you just stop by for a chat, a cake or a chocolate. Address: Grainger Market, Grainger Street, Newcastle upon Tyne, NE1 5AE. Further information.

Friday 19th May

10am: Death Cafe, Gateshead

Death seems to be a taboo subject but research has shown that talking about your end of life plans can be a relief for you, your family and friends. Death Cafe is friendly and welcoming space to talk about all aspects of dying in a relaxed and informal setting. Tea and coffee available. Adults only. Address: Birtley Library, Gateshead, Tyne and Wear DH3 1LE. Further information.

Saturday 20th May

10am: South Shields Crematorium Open Day, Tyne & Wear

South Shields Crematorium is opening its doors to the local community. The event will give visitors the chance to take a behind-the-scenes guided tour of the newly refurbished crematorium and its facilities, including the opportunity to learn about how a cremator is operated. We look forward to welcoming members of our local community along on Saturday, 20th May. The tours will take place at 10.30am, 11.30am and 12.30pm. Address: South Shields Crematorium, John Reid Road, South Shields NE34 9DT. Contact for more info.

Tuesday 2nd May

10am: Dying Matters Stands, The Royal Oldham Hospital

We are holding events and stands across the Northern Care Alliance sites and community venues to promote Dying Matters and offer information, conversation and support. We will have information on advance care planning, supporting someone who is dying, bereavement support, how to talk to children about death and dying, memory making, tissue and organ donation, spiritual support and more. We have a FREE RAFFLE at each site and lots of giveaways and activities such as flower seeds, treats, painting pebbles, memory tree, along with professionals to advise. Come and see us! The Palliative, End of Life & Bereavement Team with the Spiritual Care Team. Address: The Royal Oldham Hospital, Oldham, Greater Manchester OL1 2JH. Contact for more info. Download the poster.

Wednesday 3rd May

10am: Dying Matters Stands, Fairfield General Hospital, Bury

We are holding events and stands across the Northern Care Alliance sites and community venues to promote Dying Matters and offer information, conversation and support. We will have information on advance care planning, supporting someone who is dying, bereavement support, how to talk to children about death and dying, memory making, tissue and organ donation, spiritual support and more. We have a FREE RAFFLE at each site and lots of giveaways and activities such as flower seeds, treats, painting pebbles, memory tree, along with professionals to advise. Come and see us! The Palliative, End of Life & Bereavement Team with the Spiritual Care Team. Address: Fairfield General Hospital, Rochdale Old Road, Bury BL9 7TD. Contact for more info. Download the poster.

11am: Dying Matters Awareness event, Aintree Hospital, Merseyside

This is a market type event with approximately one dozen stall holders, all with information relating to palliative, end of life and bereavement care. The event is open to the public and hospital staff. Address: Aintree Hospital Boardroom, Liverpool, Merseyside L9 7AL. Contact for more info.

Thursday 4th May

10am: Dying Matters Awareness Week, Salford Royal Hospital

Anyone can get involved in Dying Matters Awareness Week – whether with friends and family, with your company or in the community. Hospices, healthcare trusts, schools, theatre groups, libraries, care homes, artists – we’re amazed by the diversity, breadth and creativity of the organisations who get involved. And they all have one thing in common: whoever starts the conversation, and however they do it, they never find it as challenging as they feared, and they always feel better for having started talking. We will have a FREE raffle, painting pebbles and planting seeds for loved ones. Address: (Hospital Foyer near main entrance) Salford Royal Hospital, Stott Lane, Salford, Greater Manchester M6 8HD. Contact for more info. Download the poster.

Friday 5th May

10am: Dying Matters Stands, Rochdale Infirmary

We are holding events and stands across the Northern Care Alliance sites and community venues to promote Dying Matters and offer information, conversation and support. We will have information on advance care planning, supporting someone who is dying, bereavement support, how to talk to children about death and dying, memory making, tissue and organ donation, spiritual support and more. We have a FREE RAFFLE at each site and lots of giveaways and activities such as flower seeds, treats, painting pebbles, memory tree, along with professionals to advise. Come and see us! The Palliative, End of Life & Bereavement Team with the Spiritual Care Team. Address: Rochdale Infirmary, Whitehall Street, Rochdale OL12 0LB. Contact for more info. Download the poster.

11am: Dying Matters Awareness event, Royal Liverpool Hospital

Information stands open to the public and staff, variety of resources relating to palliative, end of life and bereavement care. Address: Royal Liverpool Hospital - lower ground floor, Liverpool, Merseyside L7 8YE. Contact for more info.

Monday 8th May

9.30am: Last Days Matter

St Catherine's Hospice is launching their Last Days Matter programme, a free half day session that aims to walk you through what happens at the end of life, to help you and your loved ones to discuss death and dying, make future plans and share wishes. Address: St Catherine's Hospice, Lostock Lane, Preston, Lancashire, PR5 5XU. More info.

12pm: Homeless Awareness sessions throughout the week, Liverpool

Throughout the week we will be hosting a number of awareness sessions at our homeless services to create discussion and offer support around death. This will include posters, resident charters, guidance and support for staff, conversation starters, memory trees. Address: YMCA Together- Homeless Accommodation (Leeds Street Service), 15 Leeds Street, Liverpool L3 6HU. Contact for more info.

Tuesday 9th May

9am: Manchester Royal Infirmary Dying Matters Event, Manchester

Come along to the Atrium (near chaplaincy) to get involved in the Dying Matters Awareness Week event. We will be asking "How would you want to be supported following a bereavement?" and offering resources for supporting others. Address: Manchester Royal Infirmary, Oxford Road, Manchester, Greater Manchester, M13 9WL. Contact: zoe.ashton@mft.nhs.uk

10.30am: Conversation Cafe, run by Eden Valley Hospice & Jigsaw, Carlisle

Cumbrians are being invited to a series of ‘Conversation Cafes' aimed at supporting local people to have open and positive discussions about life, death, grief and bereavement. The pop-up events are being hosted by Eden Valley Hospice and Jigsaw, Cumbria’s Children’s Hospice. Members of the hospice’s patient and family support team will be on hand at the cafes to help facilitate and encourage discussions about death, dying and future planning and how the hospice can support people. Anyone in the local community is welcome to attend, not just those who’ve been supported by the hospice previously or those who have a life-limiting illness. Address: Durdar Road, Carlisle, Cumbria, CA2 4SD. Contact for more info.

11am: Meet a Hospice Community Nurse, run by St Catherine's Hospice

As part of Dying Matters Week our fantastic Community Nurse Specialists will be in our Adlington Charity Shop to answer any questions about the care they provide and explain how the purchases you make directly fund the amazing work they do. Address: 4 Babylon Lane, Adlington, Lancashire, PR6 9NN. Download the poster.

11am: Dying Matters Awareness Week, Swinton Gateway, Greater Manchester

Anyone can get involved in Dying Matters Awareness Week – whether with friends and family, with your company or in the community. Hospices, healthcare trusts, schools, theatre groups, libraries, care homes, artists – we’re amazed by the diversity, breadth and creativity of the organisations who get involved. And they all have one thing in common: whoever starts the conversation, and however they do it, they never find it as challenging as they feared, and they always feel better for having started talking. Free Goodies and refreshments for all who stop to talk. Address: Swinton Gateway, 100 Chorley Road, Swinton, Greater Manchester M27 6BP. Contact for more info.

Wednesday 10th May

10.30am: Conversation Cafe, run by Eden Valley Hospice & Jigsaw, Carlisle

Cumbrians are being invited to a series of ‘Conversation Cafes' aimed at supporting local people to have open and positive discussions about life, death, grief and bereavement. The pop-up events are being hosted by Eden Valley Hospice and Jigsaw, Cumbria’s Children’s Hospice. Members of the hospice’s patient and family support team will be on hand at the cafes to help facilitate and encourage discussions about death, dying and future planning and how the hospice can support people. Anyone in the local community is welcome to attend, not just those who’ve been supported by the hospice previously or those who have a life-limiting illness. Address: Tullie House - Castle Street, Carlisle, Cumbria, CA38TP. Contact for more info.

11am: Dying Matters Awareness Week, Pendleton Gateway, Salford

Run by Salford City Council and SRFT, there will be free goodies and refreshments for all who stop to talk at Pendleton Gateway in Salford. Address: Pendleton Gateway, 1 Broadwalk Pendleton Salford M6 5FX. Contact for more info

11am: Open Tour of Full Circle Funerals Partners, Altrincham

We are opening the doors to our workplace and offering the chance to tour around our Altrincham service. As a modern funeral directors seeking to encourage more open conversation around funerals, and to offer people the opportunity to learn about the choices available, we are keen to answer the questions people have and talk about a typical day in the life of a funeral director. This is an opportunity to look around our service, see our visiting room and private mortuary or to view a wicker or cardboard coffin. Jez will be on hand to answer any of your questions. Wednesday 10th May, 11am – 2pm, please feel free to pop in for a cup of tea, a chat and a tour. Address: Full Circle Funerals Partners, 23 Ashley Road, Altrincham WA14 2DP. Book a free place, or contact Sara if you have any questions.

6pm: Our Grief film showing

This powerful short film spotlights the experiences of middle-aged Black women who have experienced grief and loss, and it tells the story of how they coped. Address: Moss Side & Hulme Community Development Trust, Windrush Millenium Centre, 70 Alexandra Road, M16 7WD. More info and tickets. Contact Debi Lewinson Roberts for more info. Download the poster.

Thursday 11th May

11am: Soup & Chat, St. Rocco's Hospice, Warrington

Your community, your Hospice. If you're feeling lonely or vulnerable, come along and join us on Thursday 11th of May from 11am - 1pm at St. Rocco's Hospice in Warrington for soup, socialising and lots more! Address: St. Rocco's Hospice, Warrington, WA5 0BW. Contact Duncan Rowe for more information.

11am: Dying Matters Awareness Week, Broughton Hub, Salford

Salford City Council / SRFT will have a FREE raffle, painting pebbles and planting seeds for loved ones at Broughton Hub, Salford. Address: Broughton Hub, Broughton Hub 50 Rigby Street Salford, M7 4BQ. Contact for more info

1.30pm: Conversation Cafe, run by Eden Valley Hospice & Jigsaw, Carlisle

Cumbrians are being invited to a series of ‘Conversation Cafes' aimed at supporting local people to have open and positive discussions about life, death, grief and bereavement. The pop-up events are being hosted by Eden Valley Hospice and Jigsaw, Cumbria’s Children’s Hospice. Members of the hospice’s patient and family support team will be on hand at the cafes to help facilitate and encourage discussions about death, dying and future planning and how the hospice can support people. Anyone in the local community is welcome to attend, not just those who’ve been supported by the hospice previously or those who have a life-limiting illness. Address: Tullie House - Castle Street, Carlisle, Cumbria, CA38TP. Contact for more info.

1.30pm: Dying Matters at Work, Wigan and Leigh Hospice, Wigan

An afternoon of presentations and activities on the topic of Dying Matters at work. How can we support and signpost patients and their families when making decisions about their employment? What support is available to us as employees when facing our own bereavements and losses? What do we do to attend to our grief and build resilience both personally and as a workforce? Address: Kildare Street, Wigan WN2 3HZ. Contact for more info.

Friday 12th May

10.30am: Conversation Cafe, run by Eden Valley Hospice & Jigsaw, Wigton

Cumbrians are being invited to a series of ‘Conversation Cafes' aimed at supporting local people to have open and positive discussions about life, death, grief and bereavement. The pop-up events are being hosted by Eden Valley Hospice and Jigsaw, Cumbria’s Children’s Hospice. Members of the hospice’s patient and family support team will be on hand at the cafes to help facilitate and encourage discussions about death, dying and future planning and how the hospice can support people. Anyone in the local community is welcome to attend, not just those who’ve been supported by the hospice previously or those who have a life-limiting illness. Address: Wigton Market Hall - Church Street, Wigton, Cumbria, CA7 9AA. Contact for more info.

11am: Dying Matters Awareness Week, Walkden Gateway, Salford

Salford City Council / SRFT will have a FREE raffle, painting pebbles and planting seeds for loved ones at Walkden Gateway, Salford. Address: Walkden Gateway , 2 Smith Street Walkden Salford, M283EZ.  Contact for more info. 

12pm: Carers Centre Hub

We would love you to join us at the Wigan and Leigh Carers Centre this Dying Matters Week. Meet a member of the Wigan and Leigh Hospice team, talk to other carers and have a cuppa. Address: Wigan and Leigh Carers Centre, 3-5 Frederick Street, Hindley, Wigan, WN2 3BD. Contact for more info

2pm: Dying Matters Afternoon Tea Party, St Helens, Merseyside

Come to our Afternoon Tea with members of the Bereavement Services and Willowbrook Hospice Teams, Library colleagues and Friends of St Helens Cemetery, to discuss dying matters at work and how we can open up the conversation around dying and why it's really important to talk about death together and plan ahead. Address: Eccleston Library, Community Room, Broadway, Eccleston, St Helens, Merseyside WA10 5PJ. Contact for more info. Download the poster.

Saturday 13th May

10am: Dying Matters Awareness Week, Walkden Gateway, Salford

Salford City Council / SRFT will have a FREE raffle, painting pebbles and planting seeds for loved ones at Eccles Gateway, Salford. Address: Eccles Gateway, 28 Barton Lane Eccles Salford, Greater Manchester, M30 0TU Contact for more info

Sunday 25th June

10am: Crematorium Open Day, St Helens, Merseyside

St Helens Cemetery & Crematorium, Sunday 25th June 2023, 10.00am - 3.00pm. Ever had a question on bereavement, cremation, or burial, that you would like answering? Would you like to understand more about how our services operate? Or have a guided tour of the Crematorium. Now is your chance! St Helens Bereavement Services are holding an open day to help raise public awareness on bereavement and the local services available to you.

Why not come along to our open day: Meet with the Bereavement Services Team, The Friends of St Helens Cemetery community group, local Funeral Directors and other partners. Take part in a tour of the Crematorium & Cemetery, hear about the history of St Helens Cemetery & Crematorium and also browse the exhibits and stands available on the day. Address: St Helens Crematorium, Rainford Road, St Helens, Merseyside WA10 6DF. Contact for further info. Download the poster.

All month

Compassionate Sheffield

We have a month of free community events throughout May. Including an online webinar with Kathryn Mannix. The full schedule is on the Compassionate Sheffield website, with new events being added as people wish to host their own activity. Broad range of activities, locations and communities. Further details: https://www.compassionate-sheffield.co.uk/dying-matters or Contact for more info

Tuesday 2nd May

10am: Positive conversations about death & dying for people with learning disabilities, Keighley, W. Yorkshire

We are having an event for people with learning disabilities & family carers talking about ways to support positive conversations about death & dying - including presentations from local self advocacy groups & people with learning disabilities. Address: Bradford District Care NHS Foundation Trust, Central Hall, Keighley, West Yorkshire BD21 3JD. Contact for more info.

Thursday 4th May

6.30pm: Playback Theatre: On Loss, at York Explore Library, York

Next Door But One, in association with Playback Theatre York, bring an evening of performance and stories of life, death and everything in between. Playback Theatre is a form of improvised theatre in which the stories come from the audience and are spontaneously performed by a team of experienced actors. We have the stage and the actors … all we need now is an audience with stories to share with us. Address: Museum Street, York, North Yorkshire, YO1 7DS. Further info & booking

Monday 8th May

12pm: Dying Matters Acute Trust, Barnsley

We are hosting a week of activities along our Community and Hospice colleagues. At the hospital we are talking to staff over lunch time to provide resources and information. Address: Barnsley Hospital NHS Foundation Trust, Barnsley, South Yorkshire S75 2LY. Contact for more info.

Tuesday 9th May

9am: End of life care conference for adult, child and mental health field students at University of Leeds

First ever end of life care conference for adult field, mental health field and child field undergraduate student nurses in the school of healthcare University of Leeds. Address: University of Leeds, School of Healthcare, Leeds, West Yorkshire LS2 9JT. Contact for more info.

12pm: Rotherham Hospital: Grief and Bereavement, Rotherham

The Supportive care team will be holding an event within the hospital for Staff and colleagues on the 9th May (contact for further info). The team will also be holding a stall in the roof top cafe on the 10th & 11th May 10am-12pm for staff/relatives and members of the public. There will various information regarding conversations around grief and bereavement/signposting for support/reading suggestions. Address: Rotherham Hospital, Rotherham, S60 2UD

6.30pm: Operation Hummingbird at York Explore Library, York

Teenager Jimmy deals with his mum’s terminal diagnosis by diving into computer games. Through this virtual reality, he meets his future self and asks: will everything turn out ok? Poignant, funny and uplifting, this smash-hit play by award-winning Next Door But One returns after a sell-out tour in 2021. Based on director Matt Harper-Hardcastle’s memoir, Operation Hummingbird explores grief, loss and the power of noticing just how far you’ve come. Address: Museum Street, York, North Yorkshire, YO1 7DS. Further info & booking

6.30pm: York Death Cafe, York

York Death Cafe is a free event open to everyone whatever their knowledge interest or belief. An open, respectful, confidential space for group directed discussion of death, with no agenda, objectives, advertising or themes. Address: The Black Swan, Peaseholm Green, York, North Yorkshire YO1 7PR. Reserve your place by email. Part of the international Death Cafe movement.

7pm: DYING MATTERS: Memorial Mandala Workshop, Leeds

As part of our FREE Dying Matters events, we invite you to join Art Psychotherapist Becky Brereton, and Reiki Master and Soul Doula Eva Lake in a peaceful memorial mandala making workshop. After a grounding meditation, we’ll join together to build a mandala in loving memory of those who are no longer with us. Using objects from nature, flowers, photos and mementos, we’ll mindfully remember our loved ones in a safe and sacred space. We will have a period of silent reflection as we make, but there will be time and space to share stories of remembrance. There will be no pressure either way. Address: North Light Art Centre, Studio 6, 31 Potternewton Lane, Leeds LS7 3DD. Further info & booking.

Wednesday 10th May

2pm: Operation Hummingbird at Haxby & Wigginton Library, North Yorkshire. Address: Reid Park, Haxby, North Yorkshire, YO32 3QW. Further info & booking

7pm: Operation Hummingbird at Clifton Explore. Address: Rawcliffe Lane, York, North Yorkshire, YO30 5SJ. Further info & booking

Thursday 11th May

10am: DYING MATTERS: Planning for End of Life, Leeds

As part of our FREE Dying Matters events, we invite you to join Soul Doula, Eva Lake, in a discussion around planning the end of life. In this informative session, you’ll be reminded about the things you know need organising before you die, and you’ll be introduced to some new things that you probably never thought about. Planning for the end of life doesn’t need to be depressing and it isn’t a job that should wait for the end of life. Death planning can bring what’s important into focus, and can lead to a better life in the here and now. When the time (inevitably) comes, some of the hard work is already done. This workshop is for anyone and everyone, no matter your age or circumstance. Address: North Light Art Centre, Studio 6, 31 Potternewton Lane, Leeds LS7 3DD. Further info & booking.

10.30am:  Conversation Cafe, Tullie House, Castle Street, Carlisle, CA38TP

Cumbrians are being invited to a series of 'Conversation Cafes' aimed at supporting local people to have open and positive discussions about life, death, grief and bereavement.

The pop-up events are being hosted by Eden Valley Hospice and Jigsaw, Cumbria's Children's Hospice during Dying Matters Week, an annual national initiative led by Hospice UK encouraging all communities to get talking.

Members of the hospice' patient and family support team will be on hand at the cafes to help facilitate and encourage discussions about death, dying and future planning and how the hospice can support people.

Anyone in the local community is welcome to attend, not just those who've been supported by the hospice previously or those who have a life-limiting illness. Address: Tullie House, Castle Street, Carlisle, CA38TP. Contact for more info: jonny.irving@edenvalleyhospice.org

1.30pm: Conversation Cafe, Tullie House, Castle Street, Carlisle, CA38TP

Cumbrians are being invited to a series of 'Conversation Cafes' aimed at supporting local people to have open and positive discussions about life, death, grief and bereavement.

The pop-up events are being hosted by Eden Valley Hospice and Jigsaw, Cumbria's Children's Hospice during Dying Matters Week, an annual national initiative led by Hospice UK encouraging all communities to get talking.

Members of the hospice' patient and family support team will be on hand at the cafes to help facilitate and encourage discussions about death, dying and future planning and how the hospice can support people.

Anyone in the local community is welcome to attend, not just those who've been supported by the hospice previously or those who have a life-limiting illness. Address: Tullie House, Castle Street, Carlisle, CA38TP. Contact for more info: jonny.irving@edenvalleyhospice.org

11am: Dinner-time Drop-in Session, Barnsley Hospice

This year’s theme is ‘Dying Matters at Work’, and we are inviting local businesses, employees and health and social care professionals to attend a ‘Dinner-time drop-in’ at Barnsley Hospice on Thursday 11 May, from 11am - 1pm. At the drop-in session, we will have information about our counselling and bereavement support services and how to start conversations in the workplace - as well as information from the South Yorkshire Chaplaincy and Listening Service and Hammertons Funeral Directors. If you would like to attend, please email us as spaces are limited. Address: Barnsley Hospice, Church Street, Gawber, Barnsley, South Yorkshire S75 2RL. 

2pm: Operation Hummingbird at Tang Hall Explore, York. Address: The Centre@Burnholme, York, North Yorkshire, YO31 0HA. Further info & booking

Friday 12th May 

10.30am: Wigton Market Hall, Wigeon, Cumbria, CA7 9AA

Cumbrians are being invited to a series of 'Conversation Cafes' aimed at supporting local people to have open and positive discussions about life, death, grief and bereavement.

The pop-up events are being hosted by Eden Valley Hospice and Jigsaw, Cumbria's Children's Hospice during Dying Matters Week, an annual national initiative led by Hospice UK encouraging all communities to get talking.

Members of the hospice' patient and family support team will be on hand at the cafes to help facilitate and encourage discussions about death, dying and future planning and how the hospice can support people.

Anyone in the local community is welcome to attend, not just those who've been supported by the hospice previously or those who have a life-limiting illness. Address: Wigton Market Hall, Wigeon, Cumbria, CA7 9AA Contact for more info: jonny.irving@edenvalleyhospice.org

11am: Operation Hummingbird at Acomb Explore, York. Address: Front Street, York, North Yorkshire, YO24 3BZ. Further info & booking

2pm: Going Gently at Harrogate U3A, Harrogate

One thing that all of us will have to face eventually is our own mortality.  Whether death comes suddenly or is signalled from afar, it will be easier for us and for those we leave behind if we can plan for its arrival.  This short course will meet on Friday afternoons, beginning on Friday 12th May. There will be a charge for room hire and refreshments. The course will cover the following subjects:

• Planning for Death and Talking Through with Your Family
• The Question of Care
• Wills, Powers of Attorney & Advance Care Plans
• After Death and Probate
• Funeral Planning 
• Visit to local Cemetery and our own version of a ‘Wake’ 

Address: Victoria Avenue, Harrogate, N Yorkshire, HG1 1EG. Contact for more info.

7pm: 'Talk it to Death' Dying Matters Awareness Week Edition, Leeds

In our society, we don’t talk about death enough, yet it’s something that touches us all, and something we will all experience for ourselves, at some point. I truly believe that getting comfortable talking about death, will leave us better armed to deal with it when the time comes. Hopefully this will leave us informed of our choices, and will reduce unnecessary trauma for ourselves and our loved ones.

‘Talk it to Death’ is a safe space to join with others to discuss and reflect on death, dying and related subjects. In this group, you will be invited (without pressure) to share your stories and experiences, and to respectfully and non judgementally witness the stories of others. Together, I hope we can start to build a society that no longer fears death, but embraces it as part of life. *This group is not a substitute for bereavement support. If you are in the heavy depths of grief, you will be held and heard, but I would highly recommend seeking more relevant and appropriate support. Address: Quaker Meeting House, 136 Street Lane, Roundhay, Leeds LS8 2BW. Further info & booking.

Saturday 13th May

9am: Yoga with Wendy Jacob, York

This event is to bring awareness to how grief affects us emotionally, mentally and physically. Yoga provides tools that can help guide us on our unique journey, providing solace and support through an awareness of a new reality and providing space to grieve and find peace. Address: St Edwards Church, Tadcaster Road, York YO24 1QG. Further info.

Wednesday 3rd May

7pm: To Absent Friends, Harborne, Birmingham

The people we love live on in our memories long after they have died. To Absent Friends is a small informal gathering in which we tell and listen to stories of our loved ones over dinner. Bring an object – or maybe a photo – to help you share a memory and we’ll all share in a toast to absent friends. This event is free, but guests order and pay for their own food and drink. Places are limited so advance booking is essential. With thanks to the Scottish Partnership for Palliative Care for their support. SPPC organises To Absent Friends, an annual festival of remembrance in Scotland. Address: The Junction, 212 High Street, Harborne, Birmingham B17 9PT. Further info & booking.

Thursday 4th May

6.30pm: Death Over Drinks - Legal, Stirchley, Birmingham

An evening to explore the legal stuff around death and dying including common misconceptions about wills and powers of attorney & how to get it right. As part of A Matter of Life and Death Festival, we will be joined by Lis Whybrow, a non practicing solicitor with over 35 years experience of making wills and powers of attorney for clients in and around Birmingham. She is passionate that people understand the need to be well-prepared legally for what the future might throw at them. She speaks with enthusiasm and conviction about her subject area and loves talking to people on this subject.

The event is free but why not come early for tasty Indian snacks and local beer? Address: Anjuna Lounge, Hazelwell Street, Stirchley, Birmingham B30 2JS. Further info & booking.

Friday 5th May

2pm: Malvern Death Cafe, Worcestershire

Join us in person for a warm welcome and a group directed discussion about death and dying in a supportive atmosphere. Tea and cake will be available. Address: Malvern Cube, Albert Road North, Malvern WR14 2YF. Contact for more info.

Sunday 7th May

11am: Life and Death in Birmingham Walking Tour

Eager to find out about Birmingham’s history? Both its dark and light sides? This Birmingham Heritage Walking Tour will take you on a stroll through the city’s weird and wonderful happenings. Your host Kevin Thomas, a Birmingham-based photographer and enthusiast will lead the way. Together, you’ll explore the city’s last public hanging, as well as the Victorian Eye Hospital and Birmingham Cathedral. From the morbid to the mysterious, Kevin will uncover these place’s hidden tales. You’ll also explore The Battle of Snow Hill Station and Birmingham’s Nuclear Bunker – so come prepared for an interesting journey! Please note this walking tour is for people aged 12+. Address: St Philip's Square, Birmingham B3 2QB. Further info & booking.

Monday 8th May - Friday 12 May 

10am: Compassionate Cuppa

Bringing the community together to talk about death, dying, and grief. Drop in for a hot drink, and a slice of cake between 10am and 4pm from Monday 8th May to Friday 12th May. Address: Rowan Way, Boston, Lincolnshire, PE21 9DH

Details: https://www.butterflyhospice.org.uk/therapy-service

Monday 8th May

10am: Compton Care Dying Matters Roadshow at New Cross Hospital

Compton Care will be at New Cross Hospital from Monday 8 May - Friday 12 May to offer advice in Dying Matters Awareness Week, including information on advance care planning and Compton's range of services. 

Staff from the charity's Community and Care Home teams will be on hand outside Accident and Emergency on Tuesday 9 May, where you can find out your compassionate superpower, colour in Custard the Bear, or simply stop by for a chat. 

We will be manning a stand near to Greggs within the hospital for the rest of the week. Address: New Cross Hospictal, Wolverhampton, WV10 0QP. Contact for more info. 

11am: Dying Matters at National Trust, Coughton Court, Warwickshire

A free event that runs throughout Dying Matters Awareness Week (8th, 10th, 11th, 12th, 14th May)

The event will be a chance for visitors to reflect on what dying means to them. We will have a quiet space for visitors to write a message / draw a memory on a wooden roundel (Sustainably sourced as part of our ash dieback works from woodland on site). They will then take the wooden roundel to a space in one of our orchards where they can hang them up to create a walkway / windchime effect that others can walk through and reflect. The roundel creation week will run in tandem with dying matters, we would then have a memorial week where the roundels will be left up (15th-21st), then finally a week in which visitors can come back and take their roundel home with them (22nd-28th). We will provide all of the materials needed as part of the entrance to the site. Address: Coughton Court, Alcester, Warwickshire, B49 5JA. Further info.

Tuesday 9th - Friday 12th May

Dying Matters Awareness Week, University of Leicester NHS Trust

At UHL, the Specialist Palliative Care Team will be hosting stalls at the Leicester Royal Infirmary and Glenfield Hospital, working alongside the Chaplaincy, Bereavement, Wellbeing and Amica teams, offering everyone the opportunity to come and talk to us, either at the stall or in a private space, to offer you support, advice and guidance. There will be resources available to pinpoint to outside services and freebies to hand out as well. Please do come along to one of our stalls to say hello and support us with our event. Join us from for Dying Matters Awareness Week: Tuesday 9th May – Leicester Royal Infirmary 10:00 – 16:00 Main Canteen; Wednesday 10th May - Glenfield Hospital 10:00 – 16:00 Inside the Main Entrance; Thursday 11th May - Glenfield Hospital 10:00 – 16:00 Inside the Main Entrance; Friday 12th May – Leicester Royal Infirmary 10:00 – 16:00 Main Canteen. Address: Leicester Royal Infirmary, Leicester LE1 5WW / Glenfield Hospital, Groby Rd, Leicester LE3 9QP. Contact for more info.

Palliative Care 'Drop-In' Event, Bull Farm PCC, Mansfield

We welcome you to a Palliative Care 'Drop-In' event at Bull Farm PCC from 9th May until 12th May from 11.00 until 13.00. Members of the Specialist Palliative Care Team will be present to offer informal advice/support to the public and, health care professional staff in relation to palliative care and local support services. Everyone welcome! Charlotte Rider/ Claire Daley - Community Palliative Care Clinical Nurse Specialist. Address: Bull Farm PCC, Concorde Way, Mansfield, Nottinghamshire NG19 7JZ. Contact for more info.

Tuesday 9th May

8am: Dying Matters Week, Bramcote Crematorium, Nottinghamshire 

All week here at Bramcote crematorium we will have information displayed in our book room and on social media about dying matters week.
Monday we will be posting about our dying matters board and this will be available to come and view from today. We will also be posting on our social media about death and dying, helping children cope.
Tuesday we will be launching our 'tie a yellow ribbon in memory of' event. There will be a basket of yellow ribbons for you to write a message or name on and tie them in our reflection gardens in the designated area. 
Wednesday on our social media we will be providing recommended books and a link to the dying matters site for you to read about coping with death and dying.
Thursday we will have an article on our social media about a day in the life of our senior technician and about what made him what to work in this sector.
Friday we will be talking about our upcoming open day which is taking place on Saturday 8th July, what to expect and what will be happening through out the day.

Address: Bramcote Crematorium, Coventry Lane, Nottingham, Nottinghamshire, NG9 3GJ. Contact for more info

10am: Compton Care Dying Matters Roadshow at New Cross Hospital. Wolverhampton

Compton Care will be at New Cross Hospital from Monday 8 May – Friday 12 May to offer advice in Dying Matters Awareness Week, including information on advance care planning and Compton’s range of services. Staff from the charity’s Community and Care Home teams will be on hand outside Accident and Emergency on Tuesday 9 May, where you can find out your compassionate superpower, colour in Custard the Bear, or simply stop by for a chat. We will be manning a stand near to Greggs within the hospital for the rest of the week. Address: New Cross Hospital, Wolverhampton, WV10 0QP. Contact for more info.

10.30am: John Eastwood Living Well Centre, Sutton-in-Ashfield

John Eastwood Hospice is a hospice based at John Eastwood in Sutton In Ashfield. We have arranged to go to the local shopping centre (Idlewells) on the 9th May and the 12th May. We will be there with our notice board discussing Dying Matters and plan to do a mini quiz and asking ""What is your superpower?"" we will provide some of the Dying Matters information leaflets, and be on hand to answer questions about anything people wish to raise or discuss. Address: John Eastwood Living Well Centre, Market Street, Sutton-in-Ashfield, NG17 1BP. Contact for more info.

11am: The Myton Hospices Talk & Tour, Warwick

This Dying Matters Week, we are opening our doors for a Myton Hospice Talk and Tour, where members of the public who are interested in learning more about what we do and what our sites are like can tour our facilities and ask questions in an informal, friendly setting. Whether you are a potential patient, relative or employee, this is your opportunity to find out what a Hospice is really like, and learn more about our fantastic services. Address: Warwick Myton Hospice, Myton Lane, Warwick CV34 6PX. Further info & booking. Contact for any questions.

12pm: Dying Matters Compass Support, Birmingham

Compass Support & Compassionate Communities will be holding a Dying Matters event to invite people in the community to talk about topics such as Bereavement, End of life care and loss to help them feel more comfortable talking about these topics. We will also be providing refreshments and cake at the event. Address: Tangmere Drive, Castle Vale, Birmingham, B357PX. Contact for more info.

1.30pm: "Working" when affected by dying, death and grief, at Kings Mill Hospital, Mansfield

We are planning on having 3 x afternoon session in the foyer of Kings Mill hospital to advertise Dying Matters and the hosts will be a mixture of specialist nurses, chaplains and volunteers. We will be focusing on two main areas: courageous conversations around dying and dying in the workplace.

For dying in the workplace we will talk about and look at how employers can support their employees if they are affected by someone dying and this again will be broken down so that we cover signposts for general public as well as what KMH has to offer its own staff. Address: Kings Mill Hospital, Mansfield Road, Sutton-in-Ashfield, Mansfield, Nottingham, NG17 4JL. Contact Hazel Whitford for more information.

Wednesday 10th May

9am: Dying Matters at Work - Staff Wellbeing Event, Walsall

We will be hosting an all day drop in event for our staff. We are hosting three sessions throughout the day; ‘Compassionate Cuppa’ (9-10:30am) in the morning, a ‘Love & Loss Lunch’ (12-2pm) and a who ‘Care’s for some Cake?’ (3-4:30pm). We will hold open conversations with our colleagues and management teams to discuss experiences and support mechanisms in place for bereavement, death and dying. There will be displays and demonstrations as well as some themed questions and quizzes! Services and teams from across our Trust will be supporting this event and it is set to be a really informative, productive and most of all supportive day! Address: Walsall Palliative Care Centre, Walsall, West Midlands WS3 1SJ. Contact for more info.

11am: The Myton Hospices Talk & Tour, Coventry

This Dying Matters Week, we are opening our doors for a Myton Hospice Talk and Tour, where members of the public who are interested in learning more about what we do and what our sites are like can tour our facilities and ask questions in an informal, friendly setting. Whether you are a potential patient, relative or employee, this is your opportunity to find out what a Hospice is really like, and learn more about our fantastic services. Address: Coventry Myton Hospice, Clifford Bridge Road, Coventry CV2 2HJ. Further info & booking. Contact for any questions.

11am: Marie Curie Compassionate Cuppa, Nottingham

Bringing the community together to talk about death, dying and grief. Drop in between 11am and 1pm for a refreshments, support and advice. All welcome! Address: Marie Curie Community Hub, Unit 6 & 7 West Point Shopping Centre, Chilwell NG9 6DX. Contact for more info.

6pm: Craft and Care, Quartermasters - A Jewellery Quarter Maker Collective, Birmingham

We are surrounded by skills here in the Jewellery Quarter we are also surrounded by love. A love that is a first piece of jewellery, a keepsake, a lifelong commitment. We want to build on the love and create events that bring the community together to learn and grow strong. Craft and Care sees Quartermasters sharing their skills in a relaxed environment whilst we listen and learn from different organisations. This month we welcome Suzanne McArthur from Birmingham Hospice (the new name for St Marys Hospice in Selly Park and John Taylor Hospice in Erdington). She will be talking about the hospice movement as well as asking us to talk and think about death and dying. ""Talking about death and dying doesn’t make it happen any sooner, but society still regard the subject as a taboo. We may have questions or experiences we would like to share with others, but haven’t found right the space to do this.""

The craft activity this time pulls on our skills of reuse and sustainability. We will be stitching into embroidery hoops with materials from each of our practices. Acrylic from Frilly Industries, leather from B18 leather and threads from Tina Francis. All materials are free! Rock & Roll Brewhouse have kindly provided the venue, a craft beer establishment. Their skills of care, time and love can be seen in the venues beautiful appearance and also in their beer. Soft drinks will also be available to buy. Let's listen, let's talk, let's craft! Address: Rock & Roll Brewhouse, 19 Hall Street, Birmingham B18 6BS. Further information.

7pm: Meet the Undertakers, Birmingham

Have you ever wondered what it is that funeral directors really do? It’s a business that we don’t really think about until we have to. Nor do we really want to. However, knowing what the role of an undertaker is can make planning a funeral a more positive and empowering experience. Which can lead to a more healthy grief. So come and meet A Natural Undertaking as they open their doors and let you see behind the scenes. A Natural Undertaking are an independent funeral director in Kings Heath with experience in creating natural, personal funerals. There will be the chance to find out what it is that an undertaker can help with, hear stories of inspirational funerals and ask all the questions you’ve always wanted to ask. There will be cake. And it won’t be gloomy, the team at A Natural Undertaking promise!

The premises at A Natural Undertaking are small, so places will be limited. Please ring 0121 444 0437 to book your place. Further info.

Thursday 11th May

9am: KEMP Coffee Morning, Kidderminster

Some of our KEMP team will be joining the KEMP Coffee Morning 9am- 12noon at Kidderminster Library. It’s not easy to talk about death and dying, but it’s an important topic and one that we are passionate about at KEMP Hospice. Our team will be on hand to: Help you open up a conversation about matters related to death and dying; Offer finance and welfare advice; Give you information about health and ReSPECT documentation; Help you talk about your legacy.

The event is an informal drop-in session, however we’d be grateful if you could register your interest to let us know if you’re thinking of visiting on the day. If you can’t make it on the day, our team are always on hand to help you find the support you need. If you live in the Wyre Forest, find out about how you can make a referral for KEMP Services, or contact us. Address: First Floor, Kidderminster Library, Kidderminster, Worcestershire DY10 1AB. Further information / download the poster

10am: Grief (Creative art), Stourbridge - FOR ADULTS

Creative art allows you the freedom to explore how you’re feeling without the use of words. There are varying ways to explore your creativity, and we would like you to join us for our drop-in sessions as we explore thoughts and feelings associated with loss and grief through arts, crafts and poems. The event will be between 10am till 2pm. A session for children and young people takes place on 13th May (see details below). Address: The Stourbridge Institute Social Club, 12 Market Street, Stourbridge, West Midlands DY8 1AD. Organised by Mary Stevens Hospice. Contact for more info.

6pm: Death Cafe at Nottinghamshire Hospice, Nottingham

Chat informally with others about your thoughts about the end of life in a friendly environment. Event starts at 6pm. Address: 384 Woodborough Road, Nottingham, Nottinghamshire, NG3 4JF. 

Friday 12th May

10am: Dying Matters, Fownhope Medical Centre, Herefordshire

Display of Dying Matters Awareness leaflets and information in GP waiting room, and information to be shown all week on screen in waiting room. Address: Fownhope Medical Centre, Fownhope, Herefordshire HR1 4PZ. Contact for more info.

10.30am: John Eastwood Living Well Centre, Sutton-in-Ashfield

John Eastwood Hospice is a hospice based at John Eastwood in Sutton In Ashfield. We have arranged to go to the local shopping centre (Idlewells) on the 9th May and the 12th May. We will be there with our notice board discussing Dying Matters and plan to do a mini quiz and asking ""What is your superpower?"" we will provide some of the Dying Matters information leaflets, and be on hand to answer questions about anything people wish to raise or discuss. Address: John Eastwood Living Well Centre, Market Street, Sutton-in-Ashfield, NG17 1BP. Contact for more info.

6pm: Meet the Authors - Anna Lyons and Louise Winter from Life. Death. Whatever., Kings Heath, Birmingham

As an end of life doula, Anna supports people who are dying, their family and friends and sometimes, people experiencing bereavement. Her aim is to help people live as good a life as possible right up until the very end. As a funeral director, Louise has an unconventional approach. She created Poetic Endings, the kind of funeral service she felt needed to exist. Her mission is to get people to really think about the kind of funerals they’re having, and why they have them. Together, Anna and Louise are the team behind Life. Death. Whatever. Their joint mission is to redesign the dialogue around death and dying, to open it up and to find new approaches to this important subject. They believe that death is a normal part of life and dying is part of living. Acknowledging and accepting that one day we will die is fundamental to living a full life. It’s as simple and as complicated as that.

Anna and Louise will be reading from their book and joining in a discussion with BrumYODO at The Heath Bookshop in Kings Heath. Tickets are free but booking is essential. Address: The Heath Bookshop, (Kings Court (opposite Asda), R/O94 High Street, Kings Heath, Birmingham B14 7JZ. Further info & booking.

Saturday 13th May

10am: Grief (Creative art), Stourbridge - FOR CHILDREN & YOUNG PEOPLE

Creative art allows you the freedom to explore how you’re feeling without the use of words. There are varying ways to explore your creativity, and we would like you to join us for our drop-in sessions as we explore thoughts and feelings associated with loss and grief through arts, crafts and poems. The event will be between 10am till 2pm. A session for adults takes place on 11th May (see details above). Address: The Education Room, Red House Glass Cone, High Street, Stourbridge, West Midlands DY8 4AZ. Organised by Mary Stevens Hospice. Contact for more info.

1pm: Campo Santo - Discover death in the Jewellery Quarter, Birmingham

Discover more about death in the Jewellery Quarter with two special tours, a picnic and a ‘Death over Drinks’ discussion! This event starts with an interactive audio tour of the dead at rest in Warstone Lane Cemetery led by ITZATNA Arts, by comparing and contrasting the Victorian and 20th-century customs around death, burials and memorials, shared between Mexico and the UK. It will end with a cemetery picnic, a tradition practised in both Victorian Birmingham and contemporary Mexico, and with food created by Birmingham-based Chef and Visual Artist Alfredo Hau of ITZATNA Arts.

The picnic will be followed by an informal conversation over cake and hot drinks facilitated by BrumYODO, a community interest company founded to promote open and honest discussion around death and dying. The last stop for the day will be The Coffin Works Museum, which preserves the contents of the former Newman Brothers’ Coffin Fittings Manufactory. This old Jewellery Quarter firm made a living out of dying, producing some of the finest coffin furniture, used on the coffins of kings, queens and prime ministers. The visit includes a short tour of the historic Stamp Shop, with a machinery demonstration of the original Victorian drop stamps.

Price: £30.00. Address: Rose Villa Tavern, 172 Warstone Lane, Birmingham, B18 6JW. More info and tickets.

Sunday 14th May

2pm: Meet the Author - Hollie Starling, Kings Heath, Birmingham

Author of The Bleeding Tree, Hollie Starling will be sharing an excerpt from her book and will join in a discussion The Heath Bookshop owners Claire Dawes and Catherine Gale.

The Bleeding Tree is an unflinching year-one guidebook to grief that shows us that by looking back to past traditions of bereavement we can all find our own way forward. One of the hardest feelings to cope with when grieving is feeling loneliness in your loss. The Bleeding Tree is a beautiful reminder that no matter how lonely we feel in our grief, we are not alone. By weaving her own experiences of grief with ancient rituals and folk tales Hollie reminds us that grief is ancient and universal and approaches the subject with a fresh narrative voice and dark humour.

Hollie Starling is a writer and folklorist from the North East of England whose essays have appeared in Folklore for Resistance, Horrified magazine, the journal of The London Horror Society and Lincolnshire Strange Delights. Hollie currently works in the libraries of a national museum. Her page Folk Horror Magpie (@folkhorrormagpie) has over 30k followers across Instagram and Twitter. The Bleeding Tree is her first book. This event at The Heath Bookshop in Kings Heath is free but places need to be booked. Address: The Heath Bookshop, (Kings Court (opposite Asda), R/O94 High Street, Kings Heath, Birmingham B14 7JZ. Further info & booking.

4.30pm: Meet the Author - Helen Calcutt, Kings Heath, Birmingham

In September 2017, Helen Calcutt’s brother Matthew took his own life. He was 40 years old.

This is the starting point of an astonishing new pamphlet of poems by Helen Calcutt. At times harrowing; at others hopeful – always deeply felt and beautifully realised. These poems display the poise and precision of a poet already at the height of her powers, writing the un-writable, weaving the terrible into something relatable and filled with the light of understanding. Helen will be in discussion with BrumYODO at The Heath Bookshop in Kings Heath. The event is free but booking is essential. Address: The Heath Bookshop, (Kings Court (opposite Asda), R/O94 High Street, Kings Heath, Birmingham B14 7JZ. Further info & booking.

Tuesday 16th May

7pm: Death Cafe at The Heath Bookshop, Birmingham

Death Cafes are an informal space for people to come together to chat about life and death. There is no agenda and no agreed discussion topics – it’s whatever people in the room feel comfortable discussing. Facilitated by BrumYODO and held at The Heath Bookshop, this free 90-minute event includes drinks and cake. Address: The Heath Bookshop, (Kings Court (opposite Asda), R/O94 High Street, Kings Heath, Birmingham B14 7JZ. Further info & booking.

Running for the whole month of May

'Before I Die' Art Wall, Ipswich Waterfront

Located opposite Dance East, on St Peter’s Dock, the installation will encourage the local community to write, in chalk provided, their ambitions for what they wish to do before they die, in a ‘bucket list’ style piece of art. 

The ‘Before I Die’ wall is a global participatory art project and in Ipswich will contribute to the missions of St Elizabeth Hospice and its facilitation of the ‘Compassionate Communities’ work in the local area. As well as opening up conversations, the ‘Before I Die’ wall will also signpost the community to other support services via a QR code included alongside the mural. See further details. Address: St Peter's Dock, Suffolk, IP4 1DW

Tuesday 2nd May

9am: Let's Talk About Dying, Aylesbury

We are holding a study day "Let's Talk About Dying". Speakers include: Palliative Care consultants discussing the need for ACP; Learning Disability Nurses discussing case studies under the title "What about what I want?"; Lead Nurse for Palliative and EOLC discussing Why Communication Matters; Speech and Language Team presenting new Comfort for Feeding Guidelines; Bereavement Lead discussing Active Listening. Address: Stoke Mandeville Hospital NHS Trust, Aylesbury, Buckinghamshire HP21 8AL. Contact for more info.

Wednesday 3rd May

10.30am: Companion Voices Hertfordshire Learning Circle, Rickmansworth

We invite you to visit the monthly learning circle of our local Companion Voices group in Hertfordshire. In these sessions, as well as learning and singing songs in preparation for bringing them to the bedside when someone is dying we spend time getting to know each other and there are opportunities for Companions - as we call ourselves - to reflect, debrief and talk about our own end of life related experiences, as well as the emotional impact of attending the bedsides of dying people. Address: All Saints Church, The Green, Croxley Green, Rickmansworth, Hertfordshire WD3 3HJ. Find out more about Companion Voices.

Thursday 4th May 

9.30am: Dying Matters Meet Up, Norwich

Join representatives from local support networks, charities and businesses who are passionate about opening conversations around death and dying at our 'Meet Up' event during this year’s Dying Matters Week. Feel free to pop in and take a look at the wealth of information and support available. Address: The Forum, Millennium Plain, Norwich NR2 1TF. Contact tracey.allan@mariecurie.org.uk

4pm: West London Death Cafe, Shepherd's Bush

Small informal Death Cafe for anyone who wants to talk about their thoughts and fears. Address: The Reading Room, The Bush Theatre, 7 Uxbridge Rd, London, W12 8LJ. Contact WLdeathcafe@gmail.com

6pm: Trinity Hospice Talk and Tour, Clapham

We are opening our doors for a free Talk & Tour for people interested in finding out more about what a hospice does. The event is an opportunity to celebrate hospice care with our community, to explain how and where we provide care for patients and their families when they need it most and to explore how we might be able to support or work with you, your community or faith group, now and in the future. Booking essential. Details: https://www.royaltrinityhospice.london/Event/talk-and-tour-with-trinity-may 

Monday 8th May

9am: Awareness of Dying Matters resources via intranet, Peterborough

A banner alerting staff on IT opening page. Access to a Supportive Webinar. Cambridgeshire and Peterborough NHS Foundation Trust. Contact for more info.

11am: Film launch: 'Care with Compassion', Ashford

The film follows a patient and family though the hospital until and after his death. It allows staff, both clinical and non clinical, to see where they can make a difference to the patient experience. Contact Chris Farnham for more information. Address: William Harvey Hospital, Kennington Rd, Willesborough, Ashford, Kent TN24 0LZ

9th - 14th May

Dying Matters Awareness Week at Jubilee Library, Brighton

Join us for a packed programme of fascinating free talks, exhibitions and more at Jubilee Library 9th-14th May 2023. Pick up a programme in our libraries, download the poster or find full listings online. Address: Jubilee Library, Jubilee Street. Brighton BN1 1GE

Tuesday 9th May

9am: Coffee, Cake & Contemplate, Chelmsford

Visit our stand for a chat, support resources, biscuits, sweets, cake. Interactive poll, ribbon tying to trees, memory labels, graffiti boards and much more. Address: Mid and South Essex NHS Foundation Trust, Broomfield Hospital, Court Road, Chelmsford, Essex CM1 7ET. Contact for more info. Download the poster.

10am: Dying Matters Awareness stand, Stevenage

An awareness stand in our main corridor talking about essential conversations, advance care planning, Gold Standards framework and related topics. Why not try our prize Dying Matters Wordsearch! Address: Lister Hospital, Coreys Mill Lane, Stevenage, Hertfordshire SG1 4AB. Contact for more info. 

10am: Dying Matters: Staff Well Being: Princess Alexandra Hospital, Harlow

All week we are running a stall where we are highlighting support for staff and recognising what we do well as an organisation to support, what improvements we could make, how our own colleagues and teams support us.

We have a sharing tree, where staff are encouraged to share a memory of practice that went well, what support they have received, or a memory of someone, an experience they have had. All sharing these memories on a butterfly placed on our tree: entered into a draw. Nominating a colleague/ward or department; has a colleague or team supported you, gone the extra mile: entered into a draw. Launching EOL trolleys on the ward; These trolleys are filled with resources and practical items to provide comfort to both patients and relatives when they are being cared for at end of life; include comfort pack for families, mindfulness books, information on what to expect at end of life. Our Butterfly Hub is being launched; this is a space that is for families to utilise, where they can have a quiet space to have some time alone, reflect, make a drink when a break from a busy ward or department is needed. Our Butterfly volunteers support pts at eol as well as being a huge support for families/loved ones. Address: Princess Alexandra Hospital, Harlow, Essex CM17 1QX. More info.

1pm: Sit & Paint Workshop with the Ubele Initiative, Clapham, London

A reflective and meaningful experience where participants will be guided through the process of expressing grief through art. This workshop won't focus on how well you can paint, but on exploring loss through creativity. Please drop in to the session on Tuesday 9 May between 1pm-4pm at the Hospice. Refreshments will be available. This event is open to all, booking essential. Address: Royal Trinity Hospice, 30 Clapham Common North Side, London SW4 0RN. More info and booking. Download the poster.

Wednesday 10th May

10am: Let's Talk Dying Matters Week - Open Day at Sue Ryder St Johns Hospice, Bedfordshire

The Sue Ryder St John's Open Day is an opportunity to explore the services that are present at the hospice. Come and find out about our In Patient Unit, our community based Palliative Care Hub, our Family Support Services, Fundraising team, meet our Complementary therapist and Pets as Therapy team.

Talk to the hospice staff over a cup of tea and gently explore questions around death and dying. This will be a safe and informal setting to think over any end of life questions such as: How do I want to be remembered? How can I support dying friends? What makes a good death? What does it mean to leave a legacy? And other questions you may have. Address: Sue Ryder St Johns Hospice, St Johns Road, Moggerhanger, Bedfordshire MK44 3RJ. Contact for more info.

10am: Dying Matters Awareness stand, Stevenage

An awareness stand in our main corridor talking about essential conversations, advance care planning, Gold Standards framework and related topics. Why not try our prize Dying Matters Wordsearch! Address: Lister Hospital, Coreys Mill Lane, Stevenage, Hertfordshire SG1 4AB. Contact for more info.

10am: Dying to Know, Brighton and Hove InterFaith Contact Group

The Brighton and Hove InterFaith Contact Group have invited 26 groups and individuals of various faiths and beliefs along with public sector and community groups to a day of networking, talks and various activities about dying, death and bereavement. Starts at 8am with a Buddhist meditation, closes 6pm. Address: Brighton Unitarian Church, New Road, Brighton BN1 1UF. More info / download the poster

10.30am: Leaving Gracefully: Questions, Coffee & Chat, Attleborough, Norfolk

As part of Dying Matters Awareness Week you are invited to come along and join us for this FREE event. On entry you will receive a ticket for a FREE PRIZE draw with topical prizes donated by organisations attending. Refreshments are also provided. Come along and have your questions answered by the professionals, covering all aspects of end-of-life planning and so much more. There is no such thing as a silly question, so don't by shy as all are here to offer their wealth of knowledge around many of the areas of end of life planning, care and funeral preparations. Address: The Town Hall, Queens Square, Attleborough, Norfolk NR17 2AE. More information.

2pm: Death Cafe, Canterbury

Join us for a coffee and a relaxed, informal chat about death and dying. This is a free event and all are welcome; places are limited, so please call or email to let us know you're coming. Address: Ann Robertson Centre, 55 London Road, Canterbury, Kent CT2 8HQ. Further info and booking / contact / download the poster.

2pm: Guys Survivorship Death Cafe, London

Come to a death cafe run in The Survivorship Centre at Guys Hospital NHS Trust. Address: Guys Hospital, Great Maze Pond, London SE1 9RT. Contact for more info.

5pm: Dulwich Death Cafe, London

Take some time for yourself to mark Dying Matters week by meeting likeminded people to talk about death. Death Cafes provide a unique opportunity to talk openly and honestly about this sometimes taboo subject in a safe and confidential environment. We will enjoy a group directed discussion in which people can share their thoughts, find meaning, ask questions and reflect on what’s important. We welcome you to this space with tea, coffee, cake, warmth, and curiosity. Address: Bell House Charity, Bell House, 27 College Road, Dulwich, London SE21 7BG. More info and booking.

6.15pm: Lewes Death Cafe, East Sussex

LDC are hosting a Death Cafe in the upstairs of the John Harvey Tavern. There is no agenda or objective and everyone is welcome. Food and refreshments are available at the bar and there will be a break after an hour. The event is free and all donations are appreciated. Address: Bear Yard, Lewes, East Sussex, BN7 2AN. Further details: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100089547585583 / Download the poster

Thursday 11th May

9am: Coffee, Cake & Contemplate, Southend

Visit our stand for a chat, support resources, biscuits, sweets, cake. Interactive poll, ribbon tying to trees, memory labels, graffiti boards and much more. Address: Mid and South Essex NHS Foundation Trust, Southend Hospital, Customer Services, Prittlewell Building, Southend, Essex SS0 0RY. Contact for more info. Download the poster.

9.30am: Anne Robson Trust Roadshow, Online

Join us live on our Instagram and Facebook as we drop round hampers to our local hospital partners in Harlow, Northwick Park and Isleworth. We want to say thank you to the volunteers and coordinators for all that they do! Search Anne Robson Trust on Instagram and Facebook. Contact for more info. Download the poster.

10am: Planning Ahead Matters, Kent

Planning Ahead Matters! Advance Care Planning is something that matters to everyone and as part of the national Dying Matters Awareness Week 2023 local Advance Care Planning Advocate Clare Fuller is hosting a drop-in event at Meopham Library. There will be resource available to help plan and start conversations, books to from the Dying Matters recommended reading list, and an opportunity to ask Clare any questions you may have about Advance Care Planning. Come along to access free resource and find out why Advance Care Planning is something we should all be thinking about. Address: Meopham Library, Wrotham Road, Meopham, Kent DA13 0AH. Contact for more info.

10am: Hammersmith & Fulham Dying Matters Week Event – Information Stalls, Workshop and Compassionate Conversations, Shepherd's Bush, London

Inviting H&F residents to get involved in the Dying Matters Awareness Week event: 10am to 1pm - Information Stalls in the Atrium; 10:30 to 11:30am - A Tailored Workshop on “Power of Planning Ahead”; 11:30am to 1pm - Compassionate Conversations. We will also be providing refreshments at the event. Feel free to pop in and take a look at the wealth of information and support available. Walk-ins welcome OR book your free tickets in advance. Address: Parkview Centre for Health and Wellbeing, 56 Bloemfontein Road, London W12 7FG. Download the poster.

10am: Death Cafe, Ipswich

Taking part at the community hub in Ipswich, an opportunity for conversation about death, dying, grief, loss and bereavement. All welcome. Address: Community Hub Ipswich (CHIP), 47 St Nicholas Street, Ipswich, Suffolk IP1 1TW. Further info.

10am: Dying Matters Awareness stand, Stevenage

An awareness stand in our main corridor talking about essential conversations, advance care planning, Gold Standards framework and related topics. Why not try our prize Dying Matters Wordsearch! Address: Lister Hospital, Coreys Mill Lane, Stevenage, Hertfordshire SG1 4AB. Contact for more info.

10:30am: Dying for a Cuppa, Islington Green, London

Enjoy a FREE tea/coffee and chat to members of the Future Matters Service Team about Advance Care or End of Life planning including Advance Care Plans, Lasting Powers of Attorney, Wills and Funeral planning. We will happily talk them through with you. No booking is necessary - this event takes place from 10:30am to 2:30pm (come along at a time that suits you). Hosted by Gentle Dusk in partnership with Age UK Islington. Address: 22 Upper Street, London, N1 1XR Further information.

11am: Launch of 'Caring with Compassion' film, Ashford

Today we launch our ‘Caring with Compassion’ film. Developed by East Kent Hospitals and Flix Films, and funded by the East Kent Hospitals Charity, ‘Caring with Compassion’ is a powerful new training film for all NHS staff. The film follows ‘Peter’ in the last days of his life, and the experiences of his ‘family’, as a powerful reminder of the importance of seeing the person, not the patient. ‘Caring for Compassion’ is a moving reminder that, whatever our role, our kindness and our actions, however small, could make a big difference. It challenges us all to think about who we might meet today - whose path might we cross and what difference could we make. Address: William Harvey Hospital, Kennington Rd, Willesborough, Ashford, Kent TN24 OLZ. Contact for more info.

12.30pm: Starting the Conversation, Hertfordshire

The First in a Series of Dying Matters Workshops. Open to everyone and anyone (whether staff member, volunteer, friend of colleague) who can join us in person and want to consider why dying matters to those arounds us at work and beyond. Address: The Hospice of St Francis, Spring Garden Lane, Off Shootersway, Berkhamsted, Hertfordshire HP4 3GW. More info and booking.

1pm: Conversations around death and bereavement, Chichester University

This workshop is set up as part of a set of resources that have been made available to all university staff. The workshop is designed to start conversations around how we can support each other when someone experiences a death or bereavement. Address: Chichester University, West Sussex, PO19 6PE. Contact for more info

2pm: Poppy's Open Day, Lambeth Cemetery, London

We’re opening our doors and inviting you to come in to see the way that we work. We’ll show you our beautiful light-filled mortuary, explain how we care for the dead, and answer your questions. 

At Poppy’s, we believe that gentle, compassionate care of the dead is important for family and friends who are grieving, as well as the person who has died. We believe that this kind of great death care should be accessible to everyone. Come and see for yourself. There are two time-slots, 2pm and 3.30pm. Each visit lasts one hour. Address: The Gatehouse, Lambeth Cemetery, Blackshaw Road, London, SW17 0BY. Registration essential at: https://poppysopenday.eventbrite.co.uk

6pm: The Departure Lounge, Tunbridge Wells, Kent

We invite you to join us at The Departure Lounge. The Departure Lounge is somewhere you are able to consider and have conversations about death and dying – we hope that you will come away with more awareness about end-of-life matters, to help make informed choices for yourself, family and friends for when needed. Talking about death and dying can be really hard to do but it is not going to make it happen any quicker and we know that speaking openly about death and dying has a really positive bearing on people. These conversations help to normalise something that will inevitably happen to all of us – we will all have to face death at some point.

We would love to hear about your own experiences and to work with you to explore some different ideas about what might get people thinking and talking. Address: Hospice in the Weald, Maidstone Road, Pembury, Tunbridge Wells TN2 4TA. More info and booking.

6pm: Dying Matters Awareness Week: Event For Businesses, Bury St. Edmonds

At St Nicholas Hospice Care, we're passionate about supporting those in our communities facing dying, death and grief. That's why we're inviting local businesses to join us for an interactive session and supportive group discussion on Thursday, May 11, from 6-7.30pm as part of Dying Matters Awareness Week. Let's start a conversation about death and dying in the workplace and create a supportive environment for all. Address: St Nicholas Hospice Care - Hardwick Lane, Bury St. Edmunds IP33 2QY. Further info & booking.

Friday 12th May

9am: Coffee, Cake & Contemplate, Basildon

Visit our stand for a chat, support resources, biscuits, sweets, cake. Interactive poll, ribbon tying to trees, memory labels, graffiti boards and much more. Address: Mid and South Essex NHS Foundation Trust, Basildon Hospital, Main Entrance, Basildon, Essex SS16 5NL. Contact for more info. Download the poster.

10am: Dying Matters Awareness: Tea, coffee and a chat, Birchington, Kent

A chance to come together and talk about death, dying, and grief over a drink and a biscuit. Hosted by the Co-op. Address: 113 Station Road, Birchington, Kent, CT7 9RE. Contact for more info

10am: The Co-operative Funeralcare St Neots Coffee Morning, Cambridgeshire

A coffee morning where people are free to come along and chat about their experience's of loosing loved ones and how it's made them feel, how people are preparing for when they pass away and they conversations they have had with those around them. Address: Central Co-Op Funeralcare, 1 Huntingdon Street, St Neots, Cambridgeshire, PE19 1BG. Contact holly.tokens@centralengland.coop

10am: The BigHelp Out Volunteer Fair with the Anne Robson Trust, Hertfordshire

We're hosting a stall at the GoVolHerts Volunteer Fair in Hitchin from 10-4pm. Come and talk to us about volunteering opportunities with our end of life charity. We believe that no one deserves to die alone and with the help of community volunteers you can help us provide support and companionship to those who are at the end of their life. Address: Hitchin Market Place, 30 Market Place, Hitchin, Hertfordshire SG5 1DY. Contact for more info. Download the poster.

2pm: Dying Matters Even In The Workplace, Welwyn Garden City, Hertfordshire

This year as part of National Dying Matters Awareness Week Isabel Hospice are holding an afternoon tea scoping session for local employers across eastern Hertfordshire (Boroughs of Broxbourne, East Herts and Welwyn Hatfield) to help support their employees going through end of life issues, including diagnosis of life-limiting conditions, pre and post-bereavement, dying, death and end of life planning. We realise that this is an area that many people struggle with, so we would like to find out what local businesses need and share how Isabel hospice can help. This is a bookable event only - please book by 1st May by contacting Isabel Hospice. Address: Living Well With Isabel Community Hub, Hall Grove, Welwyn Garden City AL7 4PH

Saturday 13th May

10.30am: Reading Crematorium Open Day, Reading

Take a tour of the Crematorium, wander through our grounds and Cemetery. It's the perfect opportunity to ask all the questions you've always wanted to ask. Tours are free but tickets must be booked in advance. Address: Reading Crematorium & Henley Road Cemetery, 55 All Hallows Road Caversham, Reading RG4 5LP. More info and booking.

12pm: How would you like to be remembered? Willow and Green Funerals, Ashford

We are asking people from all walks of life, the question 'How would you like to be remembered?'. What would people say about you at your funeral? We will be sharing people's answers on social media, and at our branch, to help raise awareness about Dying matter week, and encourage people to have these conversations. Address: 2 Middle Row, Ashford, Kent TN24 8SQ. Contact for more info 

12pm: Fun things to do when you're dead, Cambridge

A festival of art, games, activities and interaction, including: Sponsored by Sacred Stones, watch a video of their amazing barrow site for holding ashes; Play a life size game of ""Operation""; Handle and learn about human bones; Meet the eco hearse from Woodland Wishes; Also try Woodland Wishes' cardboard coffin out for size; Play the ""Gravestones and Dry Bones"" boardgame with Cally Trench; Come and chat with archaeologists, osteologists, celebrants and artists; Discuss coffins with Jenny Barnish, the Merry Mourning Widow; Ask any questions you've always wanted to ask about death! Address: Cambridge Crematorium, Huntingdon Road, Cambridge CB3 0JJ. Further information. Download the poster.

3pm: North East London Death Cafe, Walthamstow

Join Debbie Young & Alberta Gutteridge at East of Eden Cafe in Walthamstow to talk openly about death, dying and grief in a safe and confidential space.

A Death Cafe is a place where people, usually strangers come together to talk about death, dying, grief and life! There are no agendas or objectives: the conversation is simply led by the people in the group. It is a place to talk and share (or just listen) rather than a grief support or a counselling session. The great thing about a Death Cafe is that everyone is welcome to use it as they want or need. Attend one time or many times, there are no rules! As the conversation is led by the group, no conversation is ever the same! East of Eden is a space that is calm, friendly and confidential allowing us to talk openly about death and dying and feel safe. Address: East of Eden, Studio 1, 14 Hatherley Mews, Walthamstow, London E17 4QP. More info and booking.

Sunday 14th May

1.30pm: The East-Enders of Reading: Reading Old Cemetery, Reading

Our family-focused audio guide (in the style of Horrible Histories) give you glimpses of the life stories people who lived in Victorian Reading. You can download it and go through it at home or visit the site and perambulate at our garden Victorian cemetery listening to the guide. Members of the Reading Old Cemetery History Group will be there to greet you and answer your questions about the site, its history and its permanent residents. Address: Reading Old Cemetery, Cemetery Junction, Reading, Berkshire RG1 4LS. Further information about the audio guide.

Tuesday 16th May

11am: Death Cafe, Islington

We hope you will find a warm welcome and interesting discussion about anything to do with 'end of life'. Having run Death Café over the years we have found no two Death Cafés are ever the same! 

People are often surprised by the touching, useful and quite often light-hearted conversations. They might include: experiences within the workplace when colleagues have died; shared experiences about how to start 'difficult conversations'; sometimes philosophical discussion or personal experiences around death and dying scenarios. Free entry, registration required.

5.45pm: Film screening and post-screening discussion - Plan 75, Lewes

The Depot in Lewes will be screening the Japanese film - Plan 75, followed by a discussion on the issues it raises. Plan 75 is a dystopic Japanese film which imagines a government program to encourage older people to be euthanized to rejuvenate an aging society. An elderly woman whose means of survival are disappearing, a pragmatic Plan 75 salesman and a Filipino labourer face life and death choices. Address: The Depot, Pinwell Road, Lewes, East Sussex BN7 2JS. Further information.

Wednesday 17th May

8pm: Make a Will for FREE seminar, St Luke’s Hospice, Harrow

Come and join us in person at one of our two evening seminars in May and learn all you need to know about Wills or Lasting Power of Attorneys (LPAs). The sessions are completely free and open for everyone to attend. Shandip Shah from Balance Consultancy will present the importance of making and having a Will, LPAs and Inheritance Tax, and answer any questions you may have. By attending a seminar, you will receive a special voucher which will have a code that allows you to have your Will written for free. The sessions will be held in the Wellbeing Activity Room at St Luke’s Hospice on Wednesday 17th May: 8pm – 9.30pm, and Thursday 18th May: 7pm – 8.30pm. There are a limited number of spaces available, so please book ahead to reserve your place using the link and for more information, please visit our website. Address: St Luke's Hospice Harrow & Brent, Kenton Road, Harrow HA3 0YG

Thursday 18th May

6.30pm: Good Grief Cafe, Wanstead

Join us for tea, cake and a friendly supportive ear. Everyone is welcome. A Good Grief Cafe is a safe and confidential space to meet others, to share and explore thoughts and feelings around the experience of grief and a loss. It's a supportive environment for reflection and conversation. It's a place where people will be able to find mutual support and encouragement. We appreciate donations (minimum of £1) towards the cost of refreshments and facilitator expenses. If you are experiencing financial hardship but would like to attend then please contact us. Discover more and book tickets. Address: Wanstead Library, Spratt Hall Road, London E11 2RQ.

7pm: Make a Will for FREE seminar, St Luke’s Hospice, Harrow

Come and join us in person at one of our two evening seminars in May and learn all you need to know about Wills or Lasting Power of Attorneys (LPAs). The sessions are completely free and open for everyone to attend. Shandip Shah from Balance Consultancy will present the importance of making and having a Will, LPAs and Inheritance Tax, and answer any questions you may have. By attending a seminar, you will receive a special voucher which will have a code that allows you to have your Will written for free. The sessions will be held in the Wellbeing Activity Room at St Luke’s Hospice on Wednesday 17th May: 8pm – 9.30pm, and Thursday 18th May: 7pm – 8.30pm. There are a limited number of spaces available, so please book ahead to reserve your place using the link and for more information, please visit our website. Address: St Luke's Hospice Harrow & Brent, Kenton Road, Harrow HA3 0YG

Wednesday 24th May

9am: Conference: Linking up Norfolk with the end in mind, Norfolk

Dying Matters Awareness week & 34th NORFOLK PALLIATIVE CARE CONFERENCE 2023 We are delighted to be announcing the 34th Palliative care conference at the NNUH on the 24th May 2023. The title of the conference is “Linking up Norfolk, with the end in mind". ‘Communities are prepared to help’ is ambition 6 of the national guidance document for end of life care. Hospital teams can participate in this approach, making best use of the enormous resource of community support, which is in keeping with principles of good care and efficient patient flow. In Norfolk we have a wealth of community support and services, and many interesting projects on integrating healthcare and community support for patients and carers. Many health professionals are not aware of these resources and the conferences amazing speakers will shine the light on these essential resources and enable us to work towards integration and building our own compassionate communities in Norfolk. This years dying matters theme is focussed on talking about death, dying and grief in the work place. The work place community is one of the largest as we spend nearly a third of our lives at work. 57% of employees will have experienced a bereavement in the last five years and every day, more than 600 people quit work to look after older and disabled relatives. Therefore building workplace communities is essential, especially in heath care. We want to create an open and compassionate society at work where we are comfortable facing the realities of dying, death and grief in our own workplace. The NNUH has a wealth of support systems and the panel with our expert speakers will highlight these and discuss how workplaces and staff can support each other, those who are ill, who are caring for those around them, or who have experienced loss, a death of a family member or friend. It's so exciting to be hosting this event, so many expert and passionate speakers, so please have a look at the programme and book your slot before its all sold out! Contact for further info & booking.

1st - 8th May

10am: Good Grief Weston, venues across Weston-super-Mare

Good Grief Weston is a new festival that aims to open up conversations around death and bereavement. Death, like birth, is one of the few universally shared experiences, yet many of us feel scared to face mortality, struggle with grief alone, or worry about how to support bereaved friends and family. 

Our creative and diverse festival will give that elephant in the room a friendly prod! Through a range of workshops, performances and other grassroot community activities, we will talk openly and honestly about death and loss – sometimes with humour, always with compassion.

Over the week, the festival will spotlight the wonderful organisations and groups already doing great work in Weston – and help kickstart a few more (from a synchronised swimming squad to a men’s cooking club!). We hope these events will stimulate different ways of thinking and provide opportunities for conversation and community spirit that will last through the festival and beyond. More information about this event.

9th - 12th May

Dying Matters at Work, RD&E, Exeter

All week the specialist palliative care teams across two sites will be in the entrance to the canteen to talk about Dying Matters. We will have helpful resources on how to support a bereaved colleague and information from occupational health on how to support staff well-being and what bereavement support is available. Address: Royal Devon University Healthcare NHS Foundation Trust, Barrack Road, Exeter EX2 5DW. Contact for further info.

Tuesday 2nd May

10am: Remembrance Morning, West Berkshire Community Hospital

We will be holding a remembrance morning to celebrate the lives of all the patients who have died in the last year. Family and friends are invited to join us. We will start with a non-religious poem read by our hospital Chaplain, followed by the planting of a rose and light refreshments. Our palliative care team and our volunteer Listening Team will be there for support and our Chaplain Simon will offer individual prayer if families would like it. Contact for more info. 

Address: West Berkshire Community Hospital, Benham Hill, Thatcham, Berkshire, RG193TU

2pm: Conversation about Death and Dying, Kelston, Bath

Death is the profound and natural end of our lives - and exploring and embracing dying enhances the depth and quality of our living. Yet for the last century we have moved further and further away from being able to talk about death openly.

To herald Dying Matters Awareness Week, we are inviting you to join us for an afternoon of open conversation about the realities of death, and also to take part in a Death Cafe, to further develop the conversation. With professionals who have expertise in different areas of death and dying to stimulate the conversation, and tea and cake to satiate the appetite, we'll explore areas including the medicalisation of death, spiritual and emotional dimensions, commercial and consumer realities, and also the environmental impact of a funeral and greener choices. Starts 1400 (doors open 1300 if you want to bring a sandwich); ends 1700. Address: Roundhill Barn, Kelston BA1 9AF. The event will be free of charge; numbers are limited. Information & booking.

Wednesday 3rd May

10am: Dying Matters, Newton Abbot Hospital Stand

Stall held at Newton Abbot Hospital, with leaflets and friendly faces to answer any questions people may have. Address: Newton Abbot Hospital, West Golds, Newton Abbot, Devon TQ12 2TS

Tuesday 9th May

9am: Dartington Primary School staffroom takeover, Totnes

The staff at Dartington primary LAP academy will be coming together this week to share thoughts and ideas about supporting grief in the workplace. Address: Dartington Primary Academy, Totnes TQ9 6JU. Contact for more info.

9.30am: Dying Matters pop up Café, Southampton General Hospital

We are hosting a Dying Matters pop up café at Southampton General Hospital. There will be free tea, coffee and cakes so come along to the chapel on D level and have a chat with some of the team about death and grief in a safe space. There will be some resources and information available about all aspects you may encounter when a person dies. Just come along and have a chat. Address: Tremona Road, Southampton, SO16 6YD. Contact for more information. Download the poster.

10am: Torbay Hospital NHS Foundation Trust, Torbay

Three day awareness event in the main reception of the Trust, the ambassadors raising awareness and promoting Dying Matters across the ICO, including the community hospitals and teams. Address: Torbay Hospital, Torbay, TQ2 7AA. Contact for more info.

Wednesday 10th May

9am: NHS Workplace Information Display, Sherbourne House, Newton Abbot

A Dying Matters information display in the office kitchen/dining area for all staff to see. Address: Sherbourne house, Courtenay St, Newton Abbot, Devon TQ12 2PF. Contact for more info.

10am: Oakhaven & Dying Matters Awareness Day, Hampshire

Oakhaven Hospice and Oakhaven Wellbeing are inviting the local community to attend different workshops during the day; Estate Planning, Future Care Planning and Funeral Options. It will be an opportunity to share information, have important conversations, so that people feel empowered about their future care matters. Address: Oakhaven Wellbeing at the Coates Centre, Lower Pennington Lane, Lymington, Hampshire, SO41 8ZZ. Contact Oakhaven Hospice for more information / download the poster.

10am: Dying Matters Awareness, Christophers' Family Funerals, Newton Abbot

An open day at Homelands Hall in Newton Abbot, hosted by Christophers' Family Funerals. Members of the public will be able to come and talk to a number of different organisations involved in and around the funeral. These will include: Karenne Weaver - Rowcroft Hospice; Stan Charles-Jones - Dogs Trust; Reverend Gareth Regan - Church of England - Newton Abbot vicar; Scott Richards Solicitors; Tom and Damien - Christophers' Family Funerals; Christine Dumbelton, Sally Ingles and Charles Russell local celebrants; Andrew Lithgow - Bidwell Wood Burial Ground; Yuli Somme - Bellacouche woollen shrouds. The event will run from 10am to 4pm. Address: Homelands Hall, Jetty Marsh Road, Newton Abbot, Devon, TQ12 2SL. Contact for more info.

10:30am: Dying Matters Awareness, Jonathan Terry - Independent Funeral Directors, Southampton

We welcome you to visit our premises. Our team will be here to answer any questions regarding funeral services and bereavement care also an opportunity to view our premises - we will also have light refreshments available. Address: 101 Peartree Avenue, Southampton SO19 7JJ. Contact for more info / download the poster

11am: Daily Dying Matters themes across St Monica Trust, Bristol

St Monica Trust will be holding a Companion Voices presentation as well as a full week of digital communication and action learning set. Address: St Monica Trust, Bristol BS25 5AA. Contact for further info.

3pm: Death Cafe at Prospect Hospice, Swindon

Prospect Hospice is holding a Death Cafe at Swindon Hub in Swindon town centre as part of Dying Matters Awareness Week on Wednesday 10 May from 3pm to 4.30pm. Everyone is welcome to come along. Free drinks and cakes will be provided. Address: Swindon Hub, 36 The Parade, Swindon, Wiltshire SN1 1BA. More information.

Thursday 11th May

11am: Dying Matters Cafe, Winchester

Come and join us for coffee and cake and a chance to talk about all matters to do with dying. We will facilitate conversation around wishes, funerals, values and practicalities. All are welcome - whatever age or stage of life. Address: Christ Church, Christchurch Road, Winchester, Hampshire SO23 9SR. Further information.

4pm: The End of the Road Show, UWE, Bristol

From theatre company ‘Off the Twig’, an interactive performance about life, love, funerals and the end of life - a show for anyone who isn't going to live forever! Inspired by real-life discussions, this heartfelt and thought-provoking piece of theatre blends storytelling, poetry and sound alongside informal open space for conversation. Book your free ticket. Contact Kathy Rogers for more information. Address: Death and Dying Collective at University of the West of England, Glenside, Bristol, BS16 1DD

7pm: North Bristol Death Cafe, Bristol

Just as talking about sex doesn't make you pregnant, talking about death doesn't kill you... North Bristol is joining the thousands of death cafes that have happened around the world since the movement began in 2011. The aim is to "increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their lives". People living in Bristol can come together for a relaxed evening of questions, ideas and even those anxieties that we may have been secretly harbouring about death and dying but haven't had to chance to air before. In this safe, confidential space, you can express your deepest fears or thoughts and listen to others' experiences.

Whilst a Death Cafe is NOT a bereavement support group, it can be a time to think and talk about one of society's greatest taboos. There is never a charge for attending a Death Cafe and there is always tea and cake to help our chat along - that doesn't sound too scary does it? Address: 2 Zetland Road, Bristol BS6 7AE. Contact for more info.

Friday 12th May

4pm: The End of the Road Show, Easton Community Centre, Bristol

From theatre company ‘Off the Twig’, an interactive performance about life, love, funerals and the end of life - a show for anyone who isn't going to live forever! Inspired by real-life discussions, this heartfelt and thought-provoking piece of theatre blends storytelling, poetry and sound alongside informal open space for conversation. Book your free ticket. Contact Kathy Rogers for more information. Address: Death and Dying Collective, Easton Community Centre, Bristol, BS5 6AW

Saturday 13th May

12.30pm: Death Cafe at The Art House, Southampton

The hope for the Southampton Death Cafe is the co-creation of a space for people of all ages to come together and reflect on death and its presence in our lives. From the Death Cafe movement, our objective is 'to increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their finite lives'. Please note the venue is up a broad staircase, there is not a lift. Address: The Art House, 178 Above Bar St, Southampton SO14 7DW. Further information.

Sunday 14th May

10.30am & 1pm: Dying Awareness Week Creative Community Workshops, Bournemouth

This year, and for the first time, Bournemouth, Christchurch and Pool Council is joining the Dying Awareness Matters Awareness Campaign by running free workshops which will take place in Bobby’s (Bournemouth town centre) in collaboration with expert in Day of the Dead Studies, Dr Jane Lavery (University of Southampton) and Mexican contemporary dancer Gabriel Galvez Prado. The free of charge creative craft workshops and video performance will have as their theme the colourful Mexican Day of the Dead, a wonderful festival which commemorates beloved ones happily. You’ll have the opportunity to create your own commemorative hummingbird to take home or go on Bobby’s display trees for others to enjoy. We are running two workshops on Sunday 14th May 2023. The workshops will last 2 hrs. Please book either the first morning slot or the second afternoon slot: 10.30am - 12.30pm OR 1.00pm - 3.00pm. Address: Bobby's Building in the Square, 1st floor next to the Maker's Store, The Square, Bourne Ave, Bournemouth BH2 5LY
(Bobby’s has lift access, toilet facilities, and a café for refreshments.) Book your place.

1pm: Companion Voices: who we are and what we do, Brighton

You're warmly invited to hear your local Companions as we talk a little about the service we provide - bringing singing to the bedside of people at the end of life - and share a few of our songs. Companion Voices is a national non-profit movement based in the UK. We gather singers to learn songs and prepare to sing for people at the end of life. We share our voices, compassion and loving presence, whether in person or virtually, when called upon to do so. Our deep and trusting community supports all Companions as well as those we gather to serve, and our singing service is free of charge, and not linked to any single belief system. Address: Jubilee Library, Jubilee St, Brighton, Brighton and Hove, Brighton BN1 1GE. More information.

Friday 19th May

11am: Death Positive Fayre, Basingstoke

Death Positive libraries aim to remove the barriers to talking about death and dying. You are invited to attend the next Hampshire Libraries Death Positive Fayre, showcasing the local bereavement support, local services and end of life planning. All in our welcoming library space. A real opportunity for both practical and supportive advice and even some creative activities. FREE - no need to book, just drop-in. Address: Basingstoke Discovery Centre, Basingstoke, Hampshire RG21 7LS. Contact for more info. Download the poster.

Friday 28th April

6.30pm: Outside the Box: a live show about death, Denbighshire

An entertaining and thought provoking insight into something that we never talk about but affects all of us. You will be moved to laughter and tears. Liz is a performer, celebrant and award winning burial ground owner. Her unique insights and experiences have created a highly original and beautifully cathartic show, combining mercurial tales and miraculous truths, collected over the years from life's finishing line. Address: Town Hall, Llangollen, Denbighshire LL20 8NU. More info and tickets.

Tuesday 9th May

9am: Workplace information display, Sherborne House

Information display in the office kitchen/dining area which all staff can see. Address: Sherborne House, Newton Abbot, Devon, TQ12 2PF. Contact for more info. 

10am: Dying Matter Awareness Week, Dewi Sant Hospital, Pontypridd

Hi my name is Terry Kemp and I am one of the Advance Care Planning Specialist Nurses for Cwm Taf Morgannwg Health Board. Myself and ACP colleague Rebecca Hobday are planning events across the Cwm Taf Health Board throughout the week. Address: Reception area, Dewi Sant Hospital, Albert Road, Pontypridd CF37 1LB. Takes place 10.00am – 15.00pm. Contact for further info.

12.30pm: Supporting managers with staff experiencing grief, loss & bereavement workshops, Wrexham

Organised by Betsi Cadwaladwr University Health Board, this workshop is for managers to help understand and support their staff with grief, loss and bereavement. Address: Wrexham Maelor Medical Institute, Wrexham, Wrexham, LL13 7TJ. Contact Charlie Finlow for more information.

Wednesday 10th May

10am: Dying Matter Awareness Week, Ysbyty Cwm Cynon New Road, Mountain Ash

Hi my name is Terry Kemp and I am one of the Advance Care Planning Specialist Nurses for Cwm Taf Morgannwg Health Board. Myself and ACP colleague Rebecca Hobday are planning events across the Cwm Taf Health Board throughout the week. Address: Reception Area, Ysbyty Cwm Cynon New Road, Mountain Ash CF45 4BZ. Takes place 10.00am – 15.00pm. Contact for further info.

11am: Spreading Compassion Around Bereavement, Cardiff

Hugh James is a law firm committed to supporting their employees health and wellbeing. This is the first Dying Matters event they have held. We are running a drop in roadshow with interactive events such as a Left Unsaid washing line where people can write messages to their deceased loved one about things they wish they had said. They can peg their notes on the washing line. We will be providing information and resources on bereavement including highlighting the bereavement policy at Hugh James which is very supportive. We will have a nurse from the local Palliative Care Team come along so people can find out more about palliative care and hospice care.

We will also have information about charities which help support people who are carers or bereaved so people can be signposted to access support. We run this as a drop in event so staff can pop in at their own convenience. Address: Hugh James, Central Square, Cardiff, Wales, CF10 1FS. Contact for more info.

11.30am: Supporting managers with staff experiencing grief, loss & bereavement workshops, Rhyl

Address: Ysbtsy Glan Clwdy, Rhyl, Denbigshire, LL18 5UJ. Contact Charlie Finlow for more information.

Thursday 11th May

1pm: Dying Matter Awareness Week, Ysbyty Cwm Rhondda Hospital, Tonypandy

Hi my name is Terry Kemp and I am one of the Advance Care Planning Specialist Nurses for Cwm Taf Morgannwg Health Board. Myself and ACP colleague Rebecca Hobday are planning events across the Cwm Taf Health Board throughout the week. Address: Reception Area, Ysbyty Cwm Rhondda Hospital, 137 Partridge Road, Tonypandy CF40 2LX. Takes place 13.00pm – 16.00pm. Contact for further info.

12.30pm: Supporting managers with staff experiencing grief, loss & bereavement workshops, Bangor

Address: Ysbtsy Gwynedd, Bangor, Gwynedd, LL57 2PW. Contact Charlie Finlow for more information.

Friday 12th May

10am: Dying Matter Awareness Week, Keir Hardie Health Park, Merthyr Tydfil

Hi my name is Terry Kemp and I am one of the Advance Care Planning Specialist Nurses for Cwm Taf Morgannwg Health Board. Myself and ACP colleague Rebecca Hobday are planning events across the Cwm Taf Health Board throughout the week. Address: Atrium, Keir Hardie Health Park, Aberdare Road, Merthyr Tydfil CF48 1BZ. Takes place 10.00am – 15.00pm. Contact for further info.

10am: Dying Matters Awareness Week Discussion: Life, Death, Dying and Grief, Llanrwst, Conwy

The opportunity to have an open, positive and informal group discussion about life, death, dying and grief. Address: Llanrwst Library, Llanrwst, Conwy LL26 0DF. Contact for more info.

Saturday 13th May

10.30am: Death Cafe at Skanda Vale Hospice, Carmarthenshire

The team at Skanda Vale Hospice is welcoming everyone to come along for tea and cake and an opportunity to share thoughts, experiences and ideas about end of life, dying, death and bereavement, in a safe and non-judgemental space. Address: Saron Road, Saron, Carmarthenshire SA44 5DY. Contact for more info.

Sunday 14th May

7pm: Operation Hummingbird / Colder Than Here performances, Milford Haven

Paul Sartori Hospice at Home together with Sandy Bear children’s bereavement charity is hosting two plays delivered by Artistic Licence to encourage discussion about death, dying and grief:

“Operation Hummingbird” looks at the experiences of Jimmy an eleven year old whose mother is diagnosed with a terminal illness through the eyes of his grown up self. The award winning “Colder Than Here” is a bittersweet black comedy tackling the difficulties of a dysfunctional family grappling with the final months of their mum’s life. Somehow they find the light even in the darkest of times.

Address: The Torch Theatre, St Peters Road, Milford Haven SA73 2BU. Tickets available from Torch Theatre Box Office by phoning 01646 692567, tickets are £12 (£10 concession) to include a complementary drink before the show. At both venues representatives will be available from Paul Sartori and Sandy Bears for support.

Tenby born actor Charles Dale, a Paul Sartori and Torch Theatre patron, hopes to attend the event at the Torch. He is a passionate supporter of the charity and has personal experience of how valuable the services offered by Paul Sartori Hospice at Home are. These events are being supported by the Torch Theatre, Wild Lakes Wales, the Port of Milford Haven and Dinas Cross community Council.

Thursday 18th May

7.30pm: **SOLD OUT** Operation Hummingbird / Colder Than Here performances, Martletwy

Paul Sartori Hospice at Home together with Sandy Bear children’s bereavement charity is hosting two plays delivered by Artistic Licence to encourage discussion about death, dying and grief. Address: The Wild Lakes Wales, Martletwy. Tickets may be reserved. Pay what you can on the night.

Thursday 10th May

7pm: Order in the house, Ballymena

A public event providing tips on decluttering and getting your house in order, including guidance on areas of advance care planning. Address: The Braid Ballymena Town Hall, Museum & Arts Centre, 1 - 29 Bridge Street, Ballymena BT43 5EJ. Compassionate Communities NI Facebook page / contact for more info / download the poster

Friday 11th May

10.30am: Living Well in Later Life, Derry-Londonderry

The project's holistic approach aims to engage local older people through social interaction, physical activity, creativity, art and nature. The organisers, Compassionate Communities NI in partnership with Creggan Country Park, recognise that as an ageing population it is very important that people assess their own wellbeing so that they can take steps to improve their chances of a longer ‘health span’ as they age. Participants include people living with comorbidities, caregivers and people living with bereavement. Address: 196 Westway, Derry-Londonderry BT48 9NU. Contact for more info. Download the poster.

Tuesday 9th May

9am: Dying Matters, Dumfries Hospital

Marie Curie will be hosting an information stall in Dumfries Hospital advertising Dying Matters and resources and services available to people. Address: Dumfries and Galloway Royal Infirmary, Dumfries, DG2 8RX. Contact for more info.